#125 Revaluation of contracts
Autumn shift, reassessment of life contracts, release from old obligations.
Relationships and family
Questions of interaction with loved ones, family and ancestral patterns, boundaries, conflicts, separation, trust, and support.
To interact with loved ones who are immersed in negativity, maintain calm boundaries, listen without absorbing their emotions, and gently redirect conversations toward solutions or neutral topics. Their state affects you because humans naturally mirror emotions through empathy, and prolonged exposure can drain your energy, trigger stress, or distort your own perspective.
In this article, we will look at two common questions from project participants about interacting with loved ones. Why does it happen that the state of your loved ones, their mood and choices have a negative impact on you, drain you, and throw you off balance.
How to let go of grievances in a relationship
In the previous part of the article, we discussed how relationships are built on the principle of hierarchy and how a woman creates space for a man. In this article, you will learn how to free yourself from grievances and what lies behind them.
Complaints in a relationship. What kind of space a woman creates for a man.
In this article, we will discuss the hierarchy in relationships and the space a woman creates for a man.
Close relationships in marriage as a path to transformation
Couples striving to build a life together face unique challenges and complexities. Read about the three levels of the journey that a man and a woman go through in conscious relationships.
Betrayal trauma. How to restore emotional balance if you feel you have been betrayed.
Some people call a partner’s, spouse’s, or loved one’s departure a betrayal. Others consider not only spouses but also business partners, employees, and friends breaking agreements as betrayal. Read the article to learn what betrayal is and what it is not. Find out how to heal the trauma of betrayal.
How to open your heart to unconditional love
How do you maintain unconditional love in a long-term relationship? The answer is simple—learn to trust your heart. You need a concrete way to develop trust, not as faith or hope, but as your own lived experience. Read more in the article.
Conditional and unconditional love manifest in relationships through different behaviors and expectations. Conditional love is based on certain conditions being met, such as good behavior, achievements, or meeting specific needs, and can lead to feelings of insecurity or pressure. Unconditional love, on the other hand, is offered without conditions, accepting the partner fully, including their flaws, and fosters a sense of safety and trust.
The attraction between conditional and unconditional love creates tension between two different sides of our nature—the desires of the conditioned self and the unconditional open heart. This tension between conditionality and unconditionality, when looked at clearly and worked with, can help you learn to love more deeply. Read about how conditional and unconditional love manifest in relationships.
For those who dream of living off their husband.
There is a category of women who dream of living off their husband. And another category — women who have been burned and prefer not to depend on men at all. In this article, using examples from comments by our readers and subscribers, we will examine both options. Also read about how a woman can reclaim her power.
[Interactive article] Books on codependency
In this article, we offer you a selection of books we read in Instagram stories throughout 2021. Since this is an interactive article, you can look inside each book to see signs of codependency, the imprint different types of parents have left on you, what healthy, codependency-free relationships look like, and recommendations for those who recognized themselves in the text.