Nowadays, many parents face the question of how to raise their children. After all, the way we were raised does not work in most cases for new children.
They are completely different because they carry a different, new energy. Who are they — these new children, and how can we help them adapt to this world so they can unlock their potential?
We discuss this in the article.
New children – who are they
It is impossible not to notice that children being born now (one or two years old) are unusual, different. However, it is a mistake to assume that the generation of children currently studying in kindergartens and schools consists primarily of 3D children.
Many of the current generation of 30-45-year-olds are indigo children — those who came with the energy to break the existing system.
Children born after 2000 belong to the category of crystal children. These are children who carry a vibration and gift of a different quality. Their gift is the gift of Unconditional Love.
Such children exhibit increased vulnerability, sensitivity.
A little later, rainbow children began to arrive. According to information from Steve Rother, representatives of the “clear-eyed” clan have recently started returning.
More information about the categories of children who arrive can be found in various channeling sources.
Each category of new children has its own distinctive features. What unites all categories is the newness of energy they carry.
It is this newness of energy that underlies the difference between generations. Each wave of incoming children carries its own energy.
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A child comes with a specific task
The energy package with which a child incarnates, all systems of their body are tuned to this task.
For example, the common task of Indigo children is to break the existing system. For this reason, a family raising such a child may often encounter their resistance to everything adults try to impose on them.
The only difference between children of one category (one task) is the amount of energy with which each child comes.
For example, Indigo children often say “no” to all stereotypes imposed on them from outside.
Among themselves, Indigo children may differ in the strength of the energetic message that each such child puts into their “no.”
The initial energy is always present in the child. In some cases, this energy manifests freely. In other cases, during the process of upbringing, this energy is suppressed and over time is emitted in a smaller volume.
Children from IVF are no different from children born naturally. Only the will of the Higher Plan (God) determines the possibility of birth. Therefore, regardless of the method of birth (conception), each arrival into this life is predetermined from above and is sacred.
Indigo, Crystal, and other children can be born both naturally and through IVF.
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Parents do not give birth to children for themselves
In fact, children choose their parents and come into the world through them. The options for forming family ties for a specific incarnation can be different.
Before incarnation on Earth, souls enter into contracts. You can read more about them in Steve Rother’s book “Spiritual Psychology”.
One of the ways is the realization of a backup contract. When a child cannot reach the parents they have chosen, they can take an alternative path and incarnate through close relatives.
In such cases, for example, a niece may feel a closer bond with her aunt than with her own parents.
Despite the fact that, when incarnating, children, as representatives of the new energy, are forced to merge into the family/system and adapt to them, they do not stop radiating their type of energy because of this.
The gift of the energy with which the child comes is preserved.
In this sense, it is the parents who are entrusted with the main responsibility:
- to see the value of their child, their gift;
- to provide them with all necessary support.
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Read about the significance of contracts in learning life lessons.
How to raise new children
Three most important recommendations on how to empower your child are:
- totally accept them (without any conditions);
- DO NOT hinder their growth;
- support and trust them in any situation.
If you do not trust your child and in some situation choose NOT to take their side, you risk inflicting a severe trauma on them. The child may perceive your behavior as betrayal.
Let’s talk in more detail about how you can help your child.
Do not hinder their growth
The most important thing you can do for your child is NOT to hinder their growth.
A child grows and develops based on their own experience, capabilities, their memory of past incarnations, and their connection to their own Higher aspects.
At the same time, it is precisely in these components that a child is many times more advanced than their parents.
Every child, unlike their parents, arrives with an already “installed upgrade” (with new energy). For this reason, a child is always a more advanced being than their parent.
Your children are your teachers.
Regularly conduct a revision of your ideas and beliefs about raising children (for example, regarding interaction in society, punishment, encouragement, helping parents with housework, tidying up the room, and the like).
By the time of parenthood, most people have an excess of social and family stereotypes, false attitudes, and misconceptions in their heads related to the topic of upbringing.
For this reason, it is necessary to periodically discard all accumulated garbage — regularly question and review your ideas about upbringing.
It is important that in a full-fledged family, both parents (mother and father) share common views on the upbringing and development of the child.
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Encourage your child’s interests
Pay close attention to your child’s interests. You also strengthen your child when you share and nurture their interests.
My daughter believed in angels and fairies. I told my daughter everything I knew about it. For example, I taught her to call on Archangel Michael when she was scared. Everything I learned myself, I taught the child.
If for me these were great revelations and realizations, the child perceived this information as normal. Together we jumped off a stool into a new reality where we have prosperity and abundance.
At that time I was into simoron, and we sang songs and rhymes together and performed rituals.
In this way I integrated the child into what I was doing myself. Besides, in my own childhood I lacked drive and zest, I was too serious, and my child gladly joined our shared practices, multiplying the effect of these activities many times over.
When you convey some new information to a child, speak to the child in their language.
Be in your own power to empower your child
Your own strength will come in handy, including in situations of your personal interaction with society, especially in cases where you have to defend and establish boundaries for your child with others.
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Share your values and gifts with the world
Check yourself how easily you yourself share the values and gifts you possess with the world.
Children absorb your lifestyle like a sponge, the way you live.
The actions and messages that are natural for you (meditation, practices, a positive mindset and behavior) are absorbed just as naturally by your children.
If you want your children to embody the values you share, demonstrate them yourself.
Any doubts about your own self-worth and the value of your priorities block your ability to adequately support and empower your child.
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Harmoniously express your feelings
You empower your child when you know how to harmoniously express your feelings.
When you have a conflict with your partner, do not sort out your relationship in front of the children. Equally, do not pretend that everything is fine.
The most valuable thing you can instill in your children from an early age is the ability to accept their feelings and live through them.
Do not lie to your children — children pick up on all the states the mother is experiencing. Young children always know the true state of affairs in the family.
For this reason, all childhood illnesses (up to one year old) are exclusively a consequence of problems in the relationships and states of the adults.
Be natural and harmonious in expressing any of your states. Do not be afraid to admit that you are in pain right now.
You can say to your child: “Yes, mommy is crying now because mommy is in pain. But everything will be fine. Mommy needs a little time, and mommy will cope.”
Communicate with children in a language they can understand. The main thing is to be yourself and harmoniously express your states, while simultaneously letting the child understand that you, as an adult, are capable of resolving any situation.
Write in the comments, what helps you in raising your children? Do you have difficulties in understanding each other?
The article is based on a broadcast from the #conversation_on_the_couch section “New Children and the System”