Jason Estes has a concept called contours (certain centers in and around the human body). To understand them, they can be compared to chakras, but they are not chakras; they are different centers.
We have already discussed the topic of contours with pictures; read more in the article Cleansing the Contours of the 4th Dimension. Does this mean we are in 4D reality?
These contours are divided into three groups: contours of matter, contours of space, and contours of time.
Starting on November 28, 2022, the cleansing of the contours of matter began, which affected women more.
Since November 15, we have begun cleansing the contours of space, which are more pronounced in the male body. This means that during the period from November 15 to mid-May 2024, this cleansing will affect men more.
The main themes that men will have to face are:
- vulnerability,
- themes related to sexuality,
- responsibility
and women:
- letting go of control,
- wildness, obsession.
Read in this material how one or another theme may manifest in you or your man.
The cleansing of the contours of matter affected women more, while the cleansing of the contours of space will affect men to a greater extent.
Both women and men have both types of energy present in the body (both masculine and feminine). This cleansing will have an impact on both men and women, only in different manifestations.
Manifestation of vulnerability in men
The first theme that will surface, according to Jason, is vulnerability.
Men often lock away emotions and feelings. If a man is courageous, he has a lot of tension with emotions and understanding his feelings. And this is their time.
Whoever has explosive men nearby, the first emotion that will show up if something doesn’t go according to their plan is anger. So, women, be ready to hold space.
We, women, have repeatedly encountered the topic of vulnerability; we already have some experience. But for men, this will be a real challenge.
See also: What is the strength and power of the state of vulnerability and how to survive it
Releasing control and responsibility
From what I see now, we have a large number of men who run away from responsibility. Moreover, for example, they may be responsible at work, but irresponsible in the family.
This may manifest not in global things, but in small things: didn’t call, didn’t arrange, got a fine, missed an opportunity, didn’t get money.
Or, for example, a man may be ready to take responsibility for the family in a global sense, but falls short in small things: promised to buy groceries — didn’t buy them, asked to pick up the child from school — forgot, and so on.
And since we are now on the bridge of 4D, the transition from 3D to 5D called responsibility, I observe how exactly men are being taught responsibility.
While the summer period for women, on the contrary, was associated with releasing control.
Perhaps you have noticed this in relationships. You think that men are irresponsible, careless, and you start to control and manage. Therefore, if you have not let go of control, this theme will continue to unfold for you.
Men are now being strongly hit over the head to take responsibility upon themselves. So if you constantly remind, prompt, do things for him, perhaps it’s worth taking a short pause and not doing this.
It’s clear that there are some serious matters when you need to call and remind, but in small things, stop being mother hens, mommies. We’re talking about independence, about self-sufficiency.
Many men in some situations do not want to make decisions. This is true in relationships and in many other areas, but women have this too.
The principle is the same, the direction is different, because in women it manifests differently: “if only he would appear and do it for me,” while a man simply does not make decisions.
He is not waiting for you to make it for him; it is convenient for him not to make them.
Therefore, such nuances of a gender nature will be revealed during this period.
See also Adulthood and Responsibility. How to Develop Responsibility in Different Areas of Life
Projecting One’s Desire onto Another
Comment: “But what if a man cannot take a step towards developing himself, but always gives me advice. Am I doing something wrong?”
Men are very prone to this.
In the course “Dance with the Shadow 3.0” there is such a topic. For example, I have a certain desire, I understand it, I try to realize it, and that is normal.
What happens when I have a desire, but for some reason I do not realize it? Moreover, I am not aware that I have it, and it becomes a shadow aspect.
In this case, the man transfers his desire onto another, onto you: “you do it.” I have a desire, but I will make you fulfill it, do it for yourself, even though you have nothing to do with it.
A classic scheme, I encounter this at home all the time.
Wildness, Obsession
During this period from November 15, 2023 to May 2024, women will fall into a state of wildness.
Wildness or, as I call it, obsession — is when you feel an inexplicable urge to do something. And here it will be amplified a thousandfold.
I once talked about my obsession, when there is a certain fixed idea, and you cannot let go of it, you are ready to not sleep, not eat, only to do this. It is like an endless orgasm, but only in terms of creativity or self-realization, when you cannot stop yourself.
So keep track, you may be drawn to something that was never characteristic of you. Be careful with this, filter the ideas that come, at least put them on your scale of values, because you can get involved somewhere where you would never get involved in life.
On the other hand, this is an expansion: you sat at home all your life, led a boring lifestyle, and then suddenly you started going to parties.
Sexuality
According to Jason Estis’s concept, a woman has 32 circuits in her uterus, and a man has 18 circuits in his genital organ, which will be cleansed.
Accordingly, there will likely be another topic that will arise in men during this period — sexuality tied to puberty, all the restrictions and traumas associated with it.
Women, as a rule, have their own traumas related to sexuality. Men have their own themes in puberty (peeping, masturbation, secretly watching porn from parents, and so on).
See also The meaning of sexual energy from a spiritual perspective. What to do when it overwhelms you
Men — slowdown, women — acceleration
For men, this period will be more about emotions, solitude and turning inward, while for women — the manifestation of obsession and wildness.
In relationships, you will most likely have different speeds. If a man turns inward, into his experiences, that is, he slows down, they need to accept themselves as weak — I am a man after all.
And rejection in men is always expressed in the form of anger. So, girls, we hold the space.
For women, this period will be associated with acceleration. Immersion will also be manifested, and cleansing will also take place, but not as intense as in men.
Perhaps you have already encountered some manifestations, or your men have. Please write in the comments how you feel this cleansing of contours?
The article is based on a broadcast from the #разговор_на_диване section “Stable Master Line” and #13 Ask KM