The more hostile you are toward the world, the more danger lurks around you.
Let’s try to understand this connection in this article.
Read on to learn how to radiate harmony instead of hostility toward the world and people.
The Connection Between Hostility and Insecurity. How It Works
Here’s how it often goes: “I’m all white and fluffy, friendly! I think positively! I radiate all good things, and then bam, something suddenly ambushes me.”
It doesn’t just come out of nowhere. That means there’s something inside me, some little emotion, some fleeting thought that slipped by, that creates all this around me.
Let me give you an example. One time my husband and I decided to go for a walk and grab a bite at a café. We’re walking down the streets, I’m not very well integrated in Riga, and Maris asks:
— Did you remember the way?
— No.
He repeats it and says this phrase: “It’s not advisable for you to walk here alone, because there are marginal types around here.” I didn’t understand who he meant by “marginal types.” The sun is shining, birds are chirping, it’s so beautiful! The smells!.. And he says:
— Did you see those drunk men who came out of the alley and were staring at you?
— No.
— And those stoned guys who bumped into you, and you had to go around them?
— No!
— Are you living in some other reality?!
— What do you mean? Since we left the house, we haven’t met a single person.
— Wow!
Back in the day, they said that one of the scenarios for transitioning to the 5th dimension is that people will all be together, but each will exist in their own reality, on their own vibrational frequency.
The difference between these realities is that who people attract, and most importantly, who sees you and who you see, depends entirely on your vibrational frequency.
For example, Maris clearly registers everything related to safety and danger. In my reality, that never existed. I’m a military officer’s daughter, born in a military town with heightened security measures. And I managed to carry that feeling with me since childhood.
See also: Symptoms of Ascension to the 5th Dimension and Characteristics of Ascending People
The Feeling of Safety and the First Chakra
Let’s look at the state of safety from an energetic perspective.
It’s no coincidence that they say the first chakra (root chakra) is responsible for safety. For those who don’t know, let me remind you that the root chakra develops before birth, while the child is in the mother’s womb, up to 6 months.
Accordingly, if the child’s mother didn’t want the baby, if she argued with the father during pregnancy, or if there were various family difficulties, all of this already impacts the unborn child.
That’s why many people come into this world already lacking a sense of safety, feeling that the world isn’t waiting for them. The very act of birth is already a stress. And the moment when the child emerges, and what awaits them next — how favorably the world received them — all of this has an effect.
We can’t rewrite our physical birth, but we can rewrite the energy of our birth. Try the “Birth” meditation, which will help you with this.
Focus on Love for People, on Friendliness
What was in childhood is gone and remains in the past. So what should you do now?
The task for each person is to find that moment, that starting point, where you broadcast hostility toward the world. And here, our category includes: “How I relate to people.”
Talking about love is simple in everyday matters. You got angry at the saleswoman, reacted when someone stepped on your foot or pushed you — that’s where moments of hostility show up.
Yes, I don’t stay angry for long, but that moment triggers it, and it launches the broadcast “I am hostile.” Very soon, a response arrives — a person appears who treats you aggressively.
Similarly, my “beloved” audience is critics. These are people who know how everyone should live and communicate this through criticism. Of course, this is a stage of life; many outgrow it, and a moment comes when you accept a person as they are: critical means critical, flawed means flawed.
Then a different mechanism kicks in: “Do I want this person in my life? Do I want to interact and communicate with them?” But I accept them.
Those who criticize everyone end up in a field of unsafety on that wavelength.
Your task is to learn to catch yourself in such moments of hostility and choose friendliness.
See also: Judgment – How to Free Yourself from This Habit
Judgmental behavior is an addiction, a harmful habit that is not easy to eradicate. If you want to change your life for the better, solve problems with health and self-acceptance, make a decision not to judge.
The Effect of Creating Your Own Field of Harmony
Let me give you an example of the effect of creating a harmonious field. Everyone has had a moment of global enlightenment in their life, a very harmonious state, when you wake up in the morning and you can handle anything, you can do everything!
It doesn’t depend on external factors, even if you argued with your husband yesterday, you can wake up in that state. These changes often happen after watching movies. You go to the cinema, you get immersed, you come out, for example, after “Avatar,” and you don’t understand where you’ve ended up, you’re still there.
It’s that feeling that I can, I am big, I can handle anything. Can anything upset you in that moment? No! In that moment, do you feel unsafe or that something bad might happen? No!
Now let’s look at some scientific proof of how this works. It’s no coincidence that the masters of the past said that instead of worrying about your loved ones, send them a message of love, transmit energy to them that everything is okay. Someone is there to take care of them, and I pray about this and send it to you.
In Chile, several years ago, there was a very powerful earthquake that happened at night. The most interesting thing is that many people woke up in the middle of the night and managed to get out of their homes.
People there live high in the mountains, in a meditative state with a completely different way of life. And scientists tested this. Usually, there is a lot of destruction, but there – it’s an amazing fact. Everyone survived, destruction was minimal. Without any explanations, without any signs. They just woke up and went outside.
People record and notice all of this. That is, our main task is to constantly remain in harmony and be confident that the world and the universe will take care of you.
Therefore, when I talk about hostility, it’s not just about people – it’s about your attitude towards life, towards the world as a whole.
When you complain that the planet has changed, that some country is bad, you are showing a worldview that the glass is half empty, this is also a manifestation of hostility. Only, in this case, not towards a specific person, but towards the world as a whole.
You do it once, you do it twice. As a result, the answer comes: “Yes, it’s not safe for you to be here!” Where this can lead is clear.
See also: How the survival mode “fight, flight, freeze” turns on and the dangers of staying in it for a long time
Does anyone have examples of when you found yourself in an unsafe situation and didn’t notice it? Everyone around you was panicking, but you were in a harmonious state. I would be very grateful if you would write about it. It’s very important for beginners!
The article is written based on the group meditation “My Safety”