The most affected part of our audience are those who remain in a victim state. Not victims of certain events, but by mindset.
When we talk about 3D, 4D, 5D, many lack the basic information to understand the difference, what is at which level, and what requirements are placed on a person with a certain level of consciousness.
Because one can be conscious in 3D, one can be physically in 3D, physical objects can be in 4D, 5D, and great confusion arises.
Therefore, for simplicity, I have chosen terms that are clear to everyone: victim, director, creator.
Three levels of development: victim, director, creator
Victim
Some time ago, the majority of people on planet Earth were in a victim state. If earlier the scenario of being a victim or victimhood was a mandatory condition for appearing on Earth, then, starting from 1987, this condition was removed. More on this in the article Transition from suffering to a mission of service.
From that moment on, and especially in recent years, it is a real choice for a person to be a victim or not.
Director
The next stage of development is the director. At this level, you are the director of your own life. You have likely heard this formulation. The main shift happens here.
For the victim, the main parameter is “they” (the government, the state, neighbors, children, husband), and I am the one suffering from their actions. Nothing depends on me at all; they are the ones doing everything, and I am the one cleaning it all up.
Behind this lies a lack of responsibility for one’s actions, emotions, words, thoughts, moods, and the results of one’s choices.
The shift occurs when a person begins to consciously, in small steps, take responsibility for their own life. This is a serious challenge, because suddenly, at some point, it dawns on you that everything bad in your life was created and generated by you. This is a very difficult ordeal for the psyche. It is the burden of responsibility.
But there are no other options if you want to regain control of your life.
When you take on this responsibility, you evolve into the state of a creator.
See also Stages of Consciousness Development: Victim – Warrior – Creator
Creator
The victim is disenfranchised, they control nothing, they are in suffering: “they are so bad, they offend me, who is so good.”
In the state of a director, you gain skills and tools to manage your life:
- no energy — do something to make it appear,
- bad mood — invest effort to lift it.
At the next stage, in the state of a creator, you begin to create, or more precisely, to co-create. But to switch to this level requires a much greater degree of responsibility, because you clearly realize and feel within yourself that everything happening around you is co-created by you.
Co-creation means creating with the spirit. You cannot enter the state of a creator if you have not awakened your soul, your connection with the spirit, and do not interact with higher planes.
The creator has no personal will, like the director, and no ego-will, like the victim. Divine will comes into action, because from this moment you do not separate yourself from the divine.
If we turn to the classifications familiar to us — this is a person of the 3D world, a person of the 4D world, and a person with 5D consciousness. But since these terms are distorted and many do not understand what they mean, the victim, the director, and the creator are clear to everyone.
See also The level of responsibility of the creator. How to deal with triggers and how to keep focus on the higher reality
What is the difficulty of switching from victim consciousness to the director level
These three states have completely different ways of thinking and worldviews. Every time you shift focus to yourself, every time you learn to think that it is not them, but me, you learn to switch your state.
We switch from the outside to the inside of ourselves, this does not mean egocentricity, it means you return to what you can and are able to influence.
And when your attention is on the outside, any comment on social networks, any word that seems directed against you, knocks the ground out from under your feet, and you find yourself in a victim state again.
Victim consciousness is a huge complex of programs and beliefs that are part of the mindset. And until every thread connected to this mindset is completely and totally rewritten, you will not switch to the director state; you will always fall into the basement.
We have unique individuals who cling to some of their beliefs: “I am not like that,” “there is not enough for everyone,” “I do not deserve,” which force them to fall into this basement, to sink into a victim state, no matter how much you develop.
Read more about this in the article Changing the reality of the third dimension.
Energy state at each level
Since the ways of thinking are different at each stage, the energy level also differs in these states.
If you do not take responsibility for your life, where do you get energy? At the victim level, there is no tool for managing energy. They appear only when you switch to the director state. The victim does not have them by default, because wherever you are pushed, there you go, you are always dependent on someone.
The victim obtains energy mostly through energy vampirism: provocations like “I am at death’s door”, “you do not love me, you do not respect me”.
Obtaining energy through provoking an emotional outburst, through aggression, or through pity. Pity is the favorite word of victims; in another state, it does not exist.
When the way of thinking changes, the set of words changes, and most importantly, the deep meanings you put into these words.
When you switch to the director level, you acquire tools for managing energy. If you are drained, you do something to fill yourself with energy.
The creator is a transparent vessel that lets flows pass through itself.
See also From ego to service: how goals change on the path of development
How the laws of the universe affect the victim, director, and creator
The laws of the universe affect all these three groups of people at different levels in different ways.
A person at the victim level has no strength, no energy, sees no opportunities, and to see them, they need to take at least a little control of their life into their own hands. And for that, they need to change their worldview, break all those ties and threads that bind them to the suffering of a victim.
The higher your level of responsibility, the more you fall under the influence of the laws of the universe, and the more is demanded of you.
A question often comes up: «I did this and that, and because of me this happened». This is an indicator that the person has already switched to the state of a director, but their conceptual consciousness is still lagging behind. Enormous opportunities are given when you follow and implement cosmic laws in your life.
One of the first laws is the law of free will and choice. You cannot influence another person’s choice in any way.
You can show by your own example, you can create a safe space so they can take what you give, but you cannot take it for them, and you will not force them. Because there will be consequences for violating the law of will and choice. The higher the level, the higher the responsibility.
The laws apply to everyone, but to varying degrees. An unconscious, disenfranchised, irresponsible, suffering person minimally feels their impact.
Depending on the state, completely different pictures unfold, depth and volume appear, which are absent at the lower level.
See also When you want changes in life. Growth through challenges
Can a victim see windows of opportunity
Technically, a victim can see a window of opportunity, but they will never open it.
They will stand next to it and doubt: what if it doesn’t work out, what if it gets worse, what if it’s not for me, etc. Because they need guarantees. But no one except yourself can give guarantees.
The victim has a great fear of making a mistake because they control nothing. Therefore, even when they see a door (a window of opportunity), they will never open it or look inside.
The director will open the door even through fear; they will at least look inside and see.
But the creator, before opening the door, will create what lies behind it. They may not know what is behind it, but inside they feel joy and anticipation, because they know that at any moment they can change everything. Because they are the main active element, co-creating with the spirit.
Attitude toward mistakes at the level of the victim, director, and creator
Any topic can be viewed through the lens of these three levels, for example, attitude toward mistakes.
How does the victim relate to mistakes? The victim has not yet made a mistake, but they sit in despondency and suffering because there are no guarantees of success. For them, making a mistake means blaming themselves and others. This means mistakes are not allowed.
And this manifests through a huge number of questions: what if I do it this way or that way? They need many details to decide on something.
What is the director’s attitude toward mistakes? There is a good phrase that demonstrates this reaction: “Only those who do nothing make no mistakes.”
And since the director takes responsibility, tries new things, and takes new actions, it is clear that there will be no 100% guarantee. Either it will work out or it won’t. Made a mistake — shake it off, make a different choice, because there is an opportunity to choose.
And what if we look at mistakes from the creator’s level? If they don’t like what they have made, they will create something else, redo it.
For the creator, cosmic laws and total acceptance of the soul’s choice are a priority.
How a victim can cultivate responsibility
Start with small things and take new actions. In principle, focus on actions, just do them. Don’t just put a cup in the sink, wash it immediately; don’t just drop things, put them away right away. Break this pattern through such simple everyday actions.
Reduce the gap between thinking and doing. Your task is to accumulate this momentum, which will begin to carry you forward on its own.
And for this, you don’t need meditations or practices. Everyday life is a very good tool.
See also: Adulthood and Responsibility. How to develop responsibility in different areas of life
Who has a space of choice
If you are in the “director” state, you yourself choose what and when you will do. Because there is a choice: I can do it now, sometimes I do it this way, other times I do it differently. There is a space of choices from which you can choose.
But a victim, not only does not know how to choose, they also have nothing to choose from. Their main principle is “bad and even worse.” And I usually add in such cases, why not choose “good and even better.”
A victim’s thinking is directed towards everything being bad: life is terrible and hard. So what option can happen? Even worse, and therefore I am afraid.
Choose who you want to be. And to understand this, realize where you are right now.
See also: Why a person in a victim mindset lacks the ability to choose
At what level do you feel yourself most often? In what situations does the victim (if present), director, or creator manifest?
The article is based on the livestream #разговор_на_диване “The Process of Zeroing Out”