“Mastery is the ability to allow others to feel their own light”
Sandra Walters
Once, a king said that to his left would sit charismatic people, leaders, military commanders who lead others. To his right would sit accountants, all those who deal with finances and give him wise advice. And directly in front of him would stand a master: “Looking into his eyes, I see the reflection of my own greatness,” said the king.
parable from Sandra Walters’ video
The world and everything happening in it is a mirror, a reflection of your thoughts, emotions, and feelings. When you heal traumas, free yourself from limiting beliefs, and accept your shadow sides, the world stops reflecting them in the external world. And you become a divine mirror for others.
Read what it means to be a divine mirror and how to remember the divine within yourself.
Look at the “old” with new eyes
The current shift in reality requires reviewing and rethinking tiny nuances that ultimately turn everything upside down.
For example, many experience a “noble” desire to send light/love to someone and the like.
Imperceptibly, this impulse has even acquired a stable evaluation of “this is good/this is right”: if I send love to someone, I am doing good.
When you strive to send something to someone, you reflect the idea that something is wrong with that person. In other words, at that moment you are reflecting a judgment of your mind.
You feel a desire to send to another what your mind/ego considers important for that person.
This tendency is most vividly expressed in the circle of people close to you, whom you unconsciously strive to fix (correct, adjust).
We grew up in a society that has an ineradicable urge to fix. As in the famous Soviet film, “And they will cure you, and they will cure you, and they will cure me…”
See also Five Mirror Principles and Five Mirrors of Relationships
The mirror does not fix, it simply reflects
In the new reality, you send nothing to anyone.
When you yourself are in a divine state, you are a divine mirror for another. There is nothing but you. Only you exist here.
Everyone you meet is your reflection. If something triggers you, infuriates you, or makes you emotional, it exists within you, simply unacknowledged, turned away, shadow.
“I will send you what I think you need right now” is no different from “what is wrong with you.”
The divine mirror reflects the original – perfect – state of a person.
You are a transmitter of your frequency.
The divine mirror reflects the original self, the divine self of another person.
To be such a divine mirror, you need to allow your divine self to manifest within yourself. Otherwise, you cannot be a divine mirror for another.
When you immerse yourself in the inner state of divinity, you generate from the heart. By doing so, you create a field around yourself, and entering this field, other people (and your household members are regularly in this field) feel the quality of your radiation.
You do not try to reach a person with words, emotions, or actions – “don’t you understand!/how can you not understand that..!” But by abiding in a divine state yourself, you reflect the other’s divinity back to them.
By your radiance, you seem to remind the other of their original essence, thanks to which a person can remember and feel their original divine state.
What this person does with it next is entirely and completely their responsibility.
They can seize this chance, this opportunity, or they can reject it — “no, it’s not mine, I don’t want it, I won’t do it.” But this no longer concerns you in any way.
Your personal interest in the outcome (needing to fix, heal, correct) and the state of the divine mirror are incompatible. Similarly, the state of the divine mirror and your low-vibrational reaction to the absence of the desired result are incompatible.
Any reflection from the outside is merely a consequence of the signal that YOU are transmitting.
If your signal transmits judgment, “what is wrong with you,” and a claim, you are not abiding in your original divine state.
See also: Forcibly Doing Good or The Danger of the Rescuer Role
What is the Divine State
Your mind gradually becomes accustomed to not looking at any processes as end points (for example, there is a goal/result, and you move toward it, while in reality the process itself is important).
Now you are moving from the “end part” into the “process,” from a state of needing to run somewhere, to do something, into a state of slowing down. At the same time, you are in a state of an observer, you are contemplating.
The state of an observer implies that you are stable, calm, you are even. You switch inward.
This is a kind of detachment, a disconnection, when you engage in contemplation and observation.
On one hand, you participate in the processes that surround you. On the other hand, you simultaneously observe them from the outside. At the same time, the entire focus of attention is shifted to feeling, to sensations in the heart.
The basis of your even and calm state is the sensation of your own verticality, a powerful inner core that allows you to be independent of what is happening outside, independent of the events and scenarios that surround you.
It is this cumulative state that allows you to connect with your advanced version, your higher self, and for some, with your monadic self.
This state, which you have been prepared for over the last few years, can be called divine neutrality.
Neutrality naturally conveys the absence of judgment. Judgment occurs when you look at something, immediately evaluate it, and attach your own “little diagnosis.”
The evaluation itself implies a subjective judgment of “like/dislike.” Rethinking evaluation as such (bad/good, right/wrong) is another important point you are currently going through, and for which many are being prepared “from scratch.”
See also How to maintain an inner state of harmony. The technique of building your verticality
What it means to be a divine mirror for another
A divine mirror reflects a person’s original divine state.
Your first step is to remember this state within yourself.
It is like with love. When you enter a state of being filled with love, you open the precious gift of love within yourself. Having first discovered this gift within yourself, you radiate love in all directions.
Remember yourself in this state. When you are in love, you bestow love not only on the “object of your affections,” but you are ready to embrace the whole world. And your love does not end: the more you radiate it, the more love you feel inside.
The same is true with the feeling of divinity. You acknowledge yourself as a divine being, recall this state within yourself, and immerse yourself in it.
Naturally, you begin to radiate this state outward. You serve as a divine mirror for others.
Everyone who is near you, entering your field, is always reflected in your mirror. Only when you yourself abide in the original divine state can you reflect their divine light to others, to the world, and to situations.
Most people, on the contrary, are crooked mirrors. When people look into each other’s crooked mirrors, they see their own shortcomings, traumas, grievances, others’ judgments, “what is wrong with me,” and so on.
In the basic course “Dance with the Shadow 4.0,” we call these shadow aspects. Participants learn to acknowledge and accept them, which allows them to release a large amount of energy and gain their wholeness.
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How to remember the divine within yourself
So, your first step is to remember the feeling of divinity within yourself.
Here, a relevant question arises: how to achieve this?
The complex begins with the simple. If you start reacting to something, remember at that moment about breathing: three deep breaths in and out. Tell yourself: “Stop! Where is my divine neutrality?”
When you start to say something to another person, remember that you are a divine mirror.
Mentally say: “I see your divine light. I witness your radiant presence, the boundless radiance of light and love from the true heart. I see your divine light” (Sandra Walters).
When you simply look into another’s eyes, especially if a conflict is brewing, try to remember and internally broadcast: “I see your divine light.”
You can say this phrase aloud, and then switch inward. You will feel a toggle click inside you, and a shift from one vibration to another occurs.
In doing so, you allow the other person to feel in your presence that very original divine state.
You are not doing good, you are not saving anyone, you are not sending anything. There is no targeting in your message — “I want to give you this because I think you need it.”
You yourself are in a radiating state. And through yourself, you give the person the opportunity to feel the same. Then the choice remains with the person — to take hold of this opportunity and develop it further, or to reject it.
If the other person has the desire and readiness to accept this priceless gift, they will accept it — without any imposition on your part. But that is their business, it has nothing to do with you.
You can radiate this state not only to people, but also to animals, trees, any life situations. It is a state of harmony in which you abide, and “being so,” you automatically radiate its vibrations outward.
Strengthen your intention to be in such a state. You don’t need to do anything, you just need to be.
“Being” does not at all mean ordinary idleness, lying on the couch with your worries, thoughts, or a desire to do nothing. It is about the state — “being.”
Even if you manage to enter this state only for moments, capture them.
When you succeed at something, you like it, anchor it, imagine how it flows from your heart through your feet down into the earth. Thus, in the center of the planet, you anchor a certain reference state for yourself, simultaneously opening it for the Earth’s grid.
Through such glimpses of the divine state, you will already be able to feel tremendous freedom.
Go through the meditation "The Divine in You" to feel your original divine state – of sovereignty, strength, balance, harmony, divine neutrality.
The work continues…
You can be whoever you are ready to be – right now.
If you are by default always in a state of divine neutrality, you have built a vertical, gratitude and unconditional love for the world flow from your heart – bravo! Your work on yourself is complete.
But if you cannot say that you are in such a state 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, you have work to do.
Focus on yourself
When you are focused on yourself and your current state, the depth of experiencing the present moment increases manifold.
It is precisely the degree of penetration into the here and now that opens the doors to all the miracles that can happen to you in your life.
Fly, soar. Get used to the new sensations of your divinity. Get used to the fact that you can simply be yourself. This is permissible. You are no longer "punished" for it now.
Out of habit, you continue to forbid yourself from being your original self (due to internal beliefs and limitations).
But now on planet Earth, it is "allowed and permitted" to be yourself – without any consequences in the form of repression, punishment, persecution, etc. Moreover, it is necessary.
So learn to spread your wings. Learn to fly.
See also: The Complete Guide to Accepting Yourself, People, and Life
Can you recall the feeling of divinity within yourself?