You have awakened. What next? How do you communicate with the people around you who remain in a 3D slumber?
Read about how you can help them while staying connected to your higher aspects, what miscommunication in interacting with people looks like and how to avoid it, and how to protect yourself from destruction when trying to help them “see the light” against their will.
Be a light for others
Usually, people come to spiritual practices driven by a desire to fix or change something. Problems and traumas lead them to the Spirit.
There are those who, having healed everything that can be healed and answered all their questions, go to the masses—enlightening, working, helping. In this way, they keep the Gates open.
This is necessary so that a vast number of people can follow in the footsteps of the “pioneers.”
It is no coincidence that the Keys of Mastery project holds a group meditation once a year, during which emphasis is placed on passing responsibility into the hands of those walking this path.
This call is addressed to people who have reached their individual peak, so that they may now be the anchors holding the space for all the unconscious, yet unawakened, to resonate.
Charged with the energy of the New Earth, each person becomes a virus. The heart energy—the call of Home—activates within.
As a result, whoever you interact with, you broadcast this resonance, this vibration outward. And there is always a chance that a person whose soul yearns for Home will have the spark within their heart resonate, respond, and ignite in return.
You do not need to teach or heal this person. You simply radiate. Thus, the virus of love spreads further, and more and more people are drawn to its vibration.
See also Catalysts of development and evolution. How you change the lives of other people
“Sleepers”: Should you drag them into the new reality
You do not need to drag husbands, relatives, or acquaintances into the new reality.
Sooner or later, any “matrix person” will have nowhere to go because everyone dreams of happiness. But the path to happiness lies through liberation from internal limitations.
When the transition window closes, matrix people will continue to live as they are accustomed.
Everyone makes their own choice. Some just need to live out this life as it comes.
Protect your precious resource and do not waste it on those who do not wish to hear the “alarm of awakening” that has been sounding in recent years. Everyone has received their chance. The time of sleepers is passing.
Do not engage in dialogues with sleepers, even if they are your relatives, colleagues, or acquaintances.
When you engage in dialogue with such people, you involuntarily get drawn into their reality, where “everything sucks.” In this case, it is difficult to maintain a state of verticality, especially if it has not yet strengthened.
By getting drawn into a horizontal connection with a sleeping person, you immediately drop in vibrations.
You do not need to explain anything to anyone. Those who want to know, know. All information is open – those who want to have every opportunity to find answers to their questions.
See also How to interact with loved ones immersed in negativity, and why their state affects you
How to communicate with “sleepers”
Use the “Soaring Bird” technique
When interacting with others, remain in a state of observation, view the situation from above.
You can use the “soaring bird” technique.
Suppose you have to communicate with a relative, colleagues, your boss calls you on the carpet, etc.
As you enter the interaction, imagine yourself as a huge bird soaring high above the place where you are. You consist of two parts: one part is you as a person; the other is you as a soaring bird.
As soon as you feel yourself getting drawn in or reacting more strongly, shift your focus of attention to the bird soaring high in the sky, surveying the city, fields, and surroundings.
This refocusing will help you avoid getting involved in the situation.
More details on the “Soaring Bird” technique are described in the article The State of the Observer: How Not to Get Drawn into Conflict Situations.
Do not pity your loved ones
To avoid getting drawn into someone else’s 3-D game, you must clearly understand those “game zones” you will not enter under any circumstances.
When refusing to support a loved one in their habitual 3-D behavior patterns, do not be afraid to seem callous. Your pity destroys the other person.
Pity demonstrates your lack of faith in the person, in their Divine spark, and in their ability to handle any situation. Pity is an example of abusing Cosmic Laws.
Matrix thinking habitually views pity as a virtue, although in reality pity causes great harm. When you lose pity, it is a good sign that you have grown.
If someone asks for advice, you can offer a one-time recommendation. But if you see that the person has not used your advice, they are doing nothing, and everything remains the same, why do you need “that trouble.”
There is a category of people who simply need to vent. They act as if they are asking for advice, but in reality, they just need to speak their mind and complain.
Such people, as a rule, do not intend to take action to change anything in their lives. They have not yet reached the stage where a person is ready to put the received recommendation into practice.
What happens when you “soften the fall” for a loved one
When you strive to “soften the fall” for your loved one who is “asleep” or has found themselves in an unpleasant situation, a conflict between concepts such as the soul, the Higher Self, and the ego rises to the surface.
The soul, the Higher Self, and the ego are completely different categories. For example, a person’s ego may have many plans and want to live, but their soul decides to depart.
Or vice versa: a person complains, suffers, torments themselves, repeatedly steps on the same rake, and does not learn their lessons.
You sympathize with them, try to help them in some way, but their Higher Self has a clear plan.
The current negative situation is one of the chances for a person to get hit painfully in the face once more, so that they finally come to their senses. And at this time, you are running around trying to soften their fall.
When you try with all your might to protect your loved ones and save them from various unpleasant situations, you deprive them of the strength to go through their lessons and solve their own problems independently.
Also remember that you transmit any support with the permission of the person’s Higher Self.
At a certain point, you stop being guided because you become a creator. The creator invents everything themselves, so dream, transmit, invent.
Remove regrets, including those about lost time, about things not done or missed. Remove all cover-ups, justifications, and delusions.
Now you are being given every opportunity to peel yourself like an onion from all of the above.
In fact, it takes a lot of effort not to see or notice the ongoing changes. If a person stubbornly clings to the old like a mule, that is their choice.
You cannot do anything about it. You just have to accept it.
It is every man for himself. If your loved ones or acquaintances wanted advice, they would have long ago asked you how you do it, what makes you different from them, why you succeed while they do not, and so on. Usually, this does not happen.
Your task is to nurture the seeds of a new reality for yourself.
See also: The need to give advice. The dangers of interfering in someone else’s life
How discommunication manifests
If you are giving out advice left and right, work on yourself.
A practicing person who has lived through everything based on personal experience never gives advice—until asked.
They know how it all works and understand the backlash that comes from unsolicited advice. You give advice, the other person does not use it, and as a result, you take on their “garbage.”
Unsolicited advice destroys you.
Communication breakdowns can be especially noticeable in interactions with loved ones. You say one thing, but people hear (or think) something else, leading to conflicts, misunderstandings, and strained relationships.
To mitigate the possible consequences of discommunication, double-check whether you have been understood correctly.
At the end of your message, summarize and recap what you wanted to convey. Be attentive yourself and do not hesitate to clarify whether you have been understood correctly.
Recently, an extremely large number of mental filters have been cleared.
For some, their “minds have already been sufficiently cleared,” and such a person sees the world without filters. For others, on the contrary, nothing remains but filters.
When you start communicating with a person, you cannot guess what filters they have or whether they understood you correctly.
The same word can be understood in completely different shades, depending on your individual experiences. Therefore, ask again, clarify, double-check.
If you belong to those people whose old filters have fallen away, you need a period of adaptation. Such a “transitional stage” will help you adjust to the fact that many continue to perceive you in the old way.
You have moved out of the old, but others still operate with old reactions (to you, to what you say, to your behavior).
The adaptation period will help you develop a new habit – calmly, peacefully – without reaction – to perceive what unfolds.
Learn to give yourself a 3-second pause before making a conscious choice (what to answer, what personal boundaries to set, where to direct your focus, etc.).
See also: How to set boundaries with your environment and not react to its attacks
Do you see manifestations of miscommunication in your interactions with people? How does it manifest, if such a phenomenon occurs? Are you able to not pity, not rescue, not teach life lessons to your loved ones who are in the 3D matrix?
The article is based on the broadcast “Twelve Days of Creation” from the rubric #conversation_on_the_couch