About teenagers

  • 0:02:15 Why try to “fit” everyone into your own framework
  • 0:05:13 Where to find broadcasts on the topics “New Children,” “Child Rearing,” and others
  • 0:07:58 Goal setting: what you wish to achieve as a result of raising your children
  • 0:09:25 The child doesn’t want to grow up. What parents are transmitting
  • 0:09:48 Teenage rebellion — saying “no” to everything
  • 0:11:03 Trusting relationships. Why create them
  • 0:14:40 Complaints
  • 0:15:40 It’s useless to give your child positive instructions if you betray them day after day
  • 0:16:23 Children — they are different. Accept this by default
  • 0:17:52 What is the main “recipe” for healthy relationships with children
  • 0:19:46 Children by default come with built-in boundaries
  • 0:20:32 New children do not recognize authority
  • 0:21:23 Up to what age do children have a connection with their higher aspects
  • 0:22:11 How to be a role model for your child
  • 0:23:10 Can a child not love their parents
  • 0:23:35 What should be done with children instead of “forcing” them into your own traumas
  • 0:24:03 Children are an example of how to choose freedom, to be yourself
  • 0:26:06 About the choices we make. The main line of love, constructiveness, well-being, harmony
  • 0:27:00 What it means to support a child
  • 0:30:17 Recommendations for broadening your horizons in understanding children and the role of parents
  • 0:31:37 Friendly relationships or trusting relationships – which to choose
  • 0:33:32 To study or not. What influences the unwillingness to learn
  • 0:37:35 Time to review rigid beliefs, to unlock what’s trapped inside
  • 0:41:48 The lazy child
  • 0:43:10 Leadership in the family
  • 0:44:09 Who is responsible for cleanliness in the child’s space
  • 0:46:47 The story with the down jacket. Characters: the child, mom in a resourceful state, and mom outside a resourceful state
  • 0:51:04 How responsibility is formed in teenagers
  • 0:53:04 Why you are tired
  • 0:53:32 Apply principles from spiritual practices in your life
  • 0:55:21 Rules and territory
  • 0:59:57 Modern children take everything more simply
  • 1:02:00 How to motivate a teenager to clean up the mess in their closet
  • 1:04:09 Grandchildren at grandma’s house
  • 1:05:13 About conscious parenting
  • 1:06:24 Time for conscious creation
  • 1:07:04 Tantrums in children
  • 1:08:01 Complaints between parents, how this affects children
  • 1:09:35 Teenagers have hormonal surges, how to behave around them
  • 1:11:37 What exactly this time offers children right now
  • 1:12:40 If a child has no communication with their father, who is the cause
  • 1:16:46 Why evaluate another person. Who said how something should be done
  • 1:19:11 How to look at things soberly
  • 1:21:03 Keys of mastery — a space where everyone develops at their own pace
  • 1:22:15 Why a new woman might hinder the father’s communication with his children
  • 1:26:51 On my territory — my rules
  • 1:28:15 We should learn from children

Articles based on this broadcast
— Why it’s important to build trusting relationships with your teenage child

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