February 14th is celebrated in many countries around the world as St. Valentine’s Day, when lovers give each other gifts…
Previously, I suggested to the readers of Keys of Mastery to give the first valentine to their beloved self, because love for anyone is IMPOSSIBLE without love for yourself.
Now I have decided to shift the focus of my and your attention… to Love and Money.
The absence of love and the absence of money are 2 key problems that hinder the transition from a victim to a creator of your life, from a poverty mindset to a prosperity mindset, from limitation and lack to the abundance of the Universe…
What, it would seem, UNITES money and love?
FEAR! The fear of losing them!
The fear that dictates how to act in a given situation…
The fear that limits your opportunities, including financial ones…
The fear that makes you seek confirmation of your worth…
On Google and Yandex, love and money are only discussed in the context of “money in relationships,” where the latter acts as the main cause of conflicts and divorces in families.
But in a global sense: “what is common between them?” – there is no such information, although the topic is hot.
The common denominator of love and money
According to data from the internet, domestic conflicts due to a lack of money are one of the main causes of misunderstanding in the family, conflicts that lead to divorce.
But, on the other hand, both money and love have a common denominator, and it is not of a positive nature, behind which lies fear.
Most people on the planet have a trauma related to a lack of love in childhood. This is a closed heart chakra and the presence of many problems in life.
If we extend the chain a little further, for many people the reason for a lack of money is precisely a lack of self-love. A deficiency of love in childhood from parents, caregivers, adults, and even classmates and peers led to a person ceasing to value themselves. As a result, there is no money.
I do not love myself, I do not value myself, I do not put myself first. Inside, there is a wild need and craving for love from the outside. The inner source is not filled; a person seeks confirmation of their worth in other people but does not find it, because they reflect the person’s attitude toward themselves.
We have spoken more than once about the direct relationship between one’s own self-worth and the presence of money in life.
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How Our Attention Works
You have surely heard the phrase more than once: “If you really wanted something, you would have had it long ago.” That is how the laws of the Universe work.
So, if something is missing, if there is no love in life, if there is no money in life, and if there is neither one nor the other, then this is a reason to honestly look at what is happening in life. Honestly!
Scientists have proven that our eye perceives absolutely everything that happens around us. After the eye captures the image, the entire flow of information is first sent to the subconscious, where it is filtered, and then at the output it reaches the level of consciousness.
And if 100% of the information enters, only a few percent remain at the output. The information passes through filters — faith, beliefs — this very machine filters everything that we ultimately become aware of.
Our core of beliefs cuts the 360-degree field of view down to a narrow sector — for some it is 10, for some 30, for some 50 percent. Most of everything remains beyond the boundary.
On the one hand, this limits us, we do not see many opportunities, but on the other hand, there are also positive manifestations of this.
Who in their life has noticed that when you choose something for yourself, focus on it, you begin to encounter it everywhere in life.
For example, you want to buy a certain car brand, and you start noticing that exactly those cars are driving around you.
If, for example, you want a baby, you suddenly notice that around you there are only pregnant women or, conversely, mothers with small children in their arms.
That is, you focus on this, direct your attention and energy there – and you get such a result. In reality, there is not more of it. It is just that your gaze picks out exactly that.
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What the focus of your attention is aimed at
If you want to have more money, pay attention to what catches the eye, what it filters in this case.
If you are focused on what you do not have, it causes tears, sadness, regret, annoyance. This is normal, because this is how emotions are released and an understanding comes that something in life needs to be changed.
For the most part, most people create unconsciously and get exactly the opposite, that is, what they did not want, because they were focused on it.
Read below on how to change the focus of attention.
How to change the focus of attention and attract what you truly desire
Conduct an analysis of the current situation
If you have determined that you are focusing on the wrong thing, and the main indicator will be a feeling of discomfort or destructive emotions, do this practice.
You performed some actions in the past, and now you have your current situation. Ask yourself the following questions:
- Is there love in my life?
- How happy do I feel?
- How easily and joyfully do I go to work?
- How easily do I communicate with my children?
- How much do I like all of this?
- How much pleasure does all of this bring me?
- How comfortable am I with money matters?
Add your own questions that you consider necessary. Answer them honestly. And from this point, move forward.
At the same time, it is important to pay attention to everything that surrounds you — all of this is a powerful signal showing what state you are in.
See also: Ego and Money. What Hinders Abundance and How to Fix It
Tune into the Feeling of Ownership
In the topic of love and money, you are either focused on what you do not have, or on what you already possess, seeing it, appreciating it, and giving thanks for it. These are two sides of the scale.
There is a manifestation of “I want this” – and it appears around me. Moreover, it does not appear within you, but around you. The reason is that you are clearly focused on it.
All businessmen who have earned insane amounts of money, without suspecting anything about love or any such laws, they simply focused on what they have and what they want to own. Not on what they lack, but precisely on the state of possession.
Wealthy people have this quality well developed. They feel so clearly in advance, anticipating the state of ownership, that it comes into their lives.
Our example with the car and the child — inside there is a need: “I would like this, I don’t have it, but I see it all around me.” This is a signal that what I lack is manifesting in my reality. The focus is placed on the wrong thing.
This needs to be rewritten into other feelings, when it’s cool, great, there is no envy, no sadness, no sorrow, but on the contrary, when you perceive it as a step of movement toward yourself. Finally, what is desired is approaching me.
Read also: Mastery of Creation. Stages of Intention Manifestation
Learn to value yourself
Trauma number two after self-dislike is the state of being undervalued: we were not praised, not loved, not shown joy for everything we did, and not thanked for it.
Forgive your parents, because their parents did not teach them this. And start filling your internal reservoir of love.
Shift your focus of attention to the understanding that the flow of love is not somewhere outside, but inside you, through you.
Below you will find a recording of a training seminar on the topic “Love and Money,” where a meditation was conducted to increase your own self-worth. Go through it and complete the task that is offered there.
Focus on the result
Many people want not just money, but to find ways to obtain it that are fun and easy to earn. What’s the catch here?
Let’s return to the word “possession of money.” There are two states: “I have this in the future” and “I already possess this.”
Possession is one thing, but when you focus on the methods, on the process — that is another. These are two different sides of the scale.
Most people focus on ways of obtaining, not on the money itself. They seek, they enjoy the process, and that does not always bring money. Because the focus is directed elsewhere.
Therefore, if you have money but desire not just money, but the methods themselves, then focus specifically on them. But if the situation is such that you need money, yet you simply want it to be joyful and easy, then refocus on the state of ownership.
And the second point is a specific focus of attention on what is present. Launch the intention, invest your energy into it, and forget about it.
At the same time, it must be inscribed within every cell of your being, it must be your need. But do not think about it in your mind.
Listen to the recording of the webinar «Love and Money», which covers the following topics:
- Love or money? Fear and self-dislike
- How we perceive the world around us
- Analysis of the current situation. Sense of ownership
- What your focus of attention is aimed at
- The mechanism of creation
- Money expands our possibilities. Safety cushion
- Owning money or earning it. If there is no shift in personal and financial spheres
- Practice of letting go
- State of being undervalued
- Extravagance. Falling in love easily. Exchange of energies
- How to attract a man into your life
- Forgiveness techniques
- Meditation on raising your own worth. Indicators of worth