This is the second part of an article on the topic of death from the perspective of metaphysics and spirituality. In the first part, we examined questions related to the transition of the soul from the physical world to the world of souls.
Today we will touch on fears associated with the onset of death, and also consider the topic of suicide and ritualistics.
Suicide from the point of view of spirituality. What to do if a person is thinking about suicide
In religion, suicide is interpreted as a sin. In the same religion, God judges for “misdeeds” and punishes.
A supra-religious person does not know a “cruel God.” His God is all-forgiving, because God radiates Unconditional Love.
Therefore, a person who has committed suicide has nothing to forgive.
If a loved one is thinking about suicide, it does not mean that you should feel responsible for their states and desires.
When one day a person close to me spoke about their desire to voluntarily leave life, I, as a maximalist at that period of life, declared: “Please, if you are a coward, you can do it. We will not grieve. You won’t make anyone worse off by doing this”…
In the end, my firm stance on this matter somehow sobered the person up, and over time this topic never came up again.
If you find yourself in a similar situation, you should not create a fuss around it – coddling the person, saving them by any means available to you.
The best thing you can do is calmly accept the situation and the other person’s opinion.
If necessary, you can seek help from appropriate psychological support services to get advice from a specialist on how to behave in such a situation.
See also How to help a loved one without imposing your beliefs
Read what features need to be taken into account so as not to harm either yourself or your neighbor.
Fears associated with the onset of death
What to do with the fear of one’s own death. Recommendations from Maris Dreshmanis
There are many tools for working through the fear of one’s own death.
Recommendations from Maris Dreshmanis (head of the Institute of Reincarnationics):
“It is important to separate the fear of death from the fear of pain. Think about it: if you suddenly don’t wake up in the morning, there’s no need to be afraid – it’s not painful, you simply didn’t wake up.
If you are frightened by images associated with a tragic death (for example, in a car accident), you are afraid of the pain before death, not death itself.
The fear of death as such is related to the fact that you do not know what will happen next (after death).
This is a common fear of the unknown, which manifests throughout life in any situation you encounter for the first time. The way to overcome such fear is to make the unknown known.
One way is to recall at least a couple of dozen past lives, to remember how you died in each of them (at an early age/due to suicide, illness, old age, abortion, etc.).
When you review these experiences, you will understand that death is as familiar a process as many other things.
Therefore, there is no need to fear death. It is better to understand these processes and be prepared for them. In that case, you will be able to help not only yourself but also support others.”
After death, having completed the lesson learned in school, the soul returns Home. Everything is fine with the soul.
See also How to switch from a state of fear to a state of love
In this article, we offer several tips on how to transition from an old, habitual model of behavior driven by fear into a state of love and maintain it.
Fear of Losing Children
At the root of any fear of loss lies ego-self-pity: “but what about me – without this?”
By fearing the loss of a loved one or a child, you demonstrate non-acceptance of the choice of their soul. Children are not your property. You have no right to control your children.
It is very difficult for mothers to accept this reality. The younger (newer) a mother’s soul is, the easier it is for her to accept the fact of losing a child.
Can Your Thoughts Influence the Death of a Loved One
According to the Law of Free Will and Choice, you cannot influence another person in any way without their consent.
Any situations involving violence, forced departure, and the like occur exclusively from the mutual agreement of two souls (the “victim” and the “perpetrator”).
Anxiety, guilt, and fears that you might have somehow (through your thoughts) influenced the death of a loved one stem from ego and pride.
If you have a contract with another soul, then according to that contract, you can facilitate their departure, including through the realization of your lesson in your shared role scenario.
How Children Perceive Death
Children do not understand death because they do not perceive death from the position of the ego.
Approximately until adolescence, children maintain a strong connection with the world of the soul. Therefore, children adequately perceive death as a transition – without fear, with joy.
New (crystal) children coming to Earth have a larger number of pre-planned exit points from incarnation. These children carry the Gift of Unconditional Love.
The first crystal children came to Earth (around and after the year 2000) when the mass consciousness of people was not ready to perceive their Gift.
Therefore, each such child had dozens of exit points from incarnation – that is, dozens of ways to leave life if it became unbearable (excluding suicide).
Is it necessary to visit the cemetery, the grave. Is ritualism important
The ritualism of burials, visiting cemeteries, etc. is a personal matter for everyone and depends on the beliefs and preferences of the individual.
To maintain a connection with the departed, it is not necessary to be present near their burial site.
The topic of burial ritualism and communication with the departed is rife with matrix stereotypes. A person’s attitude towards the topic of rituals associated with transition is determined by their worldview.
When encountering such situations in your life, be guided by your own beliefs and preferences. Do what you believe in.
About transition teams
According to information from Steve Rother, some people may belong to so-called transition teams. There are two types.
One type includes those people who welcome a newborn into this incarnation.
The other type includes those who see off departing people (provide informational support, prepare them for the transition, and help them carry it out).
Many people fear death, do not understand the essence of the process, and begin to panic when they encounter this phenomenon.
Members of transition teams work in hospices and other institutions, providing help and support to those who are preparing for the transition.
The main task of support team members is to maintain their own inner harmony in order to transmit it to those who are unbalanced at the moment of transition.
How to support a grieving person
One should not try to explain or interpret anything to a suffering person who is grieving.
It is important to support the sufferer during the period of grief at the level and from the position that is available to them at that moment.
Sometimes it is enough to just be nearby and remain silent, allowing the person to stay in your harmonious and calming field. Words of comfort often do not bring real relief.
See also The Illusion of Safety. What will help you find peace
If relatives living far away die
When your relatives live far away, you do not have close contact with them during their lifetime, are not present at their death, and do not see them off on their final journey, you may not experience the feeling of grief associated with their passing.
Moreover, you may feel that these people are still alive, and you continue to maintain a heartfelt connection with them.
The absence of the usual state of grief in such cases is due to the fact that the egoic part of a person, which becomes attached and therefore suffers, is not involved here.
Those people suffer whose relationship with the departed involves the egoic part.
The topic of death is one of the complex topics, and at the same time generates interest. In these two articles, we have shown our view and understanding of this issue from the perspective of metaphysics and spirituality. You may have a different view.
Everyone is looking for their own answer — something that resonates with them and brings comfort. We hope you found your answer right here.
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This article is based on a broadcast from the #conversation_on_the_couch section titled “On Death and Self-Pity”