In our new world, many people still cannot find landmarks to rely on. Some continue to live in hope that everything will be as before, some lament world events and cannot accept them, while others want to understand what the future holds.
A small portion of people have learned to maintain balance, radiate love, and heartfelt warmth. And it is precisely this warmth that is the currency of the new world. More on this in the article.
How to switch to the wave of warmth and love
Earlier we talked about stability and security being within us, and that it is useless to seek them in the external world. What actions can help you switch to the wave of love, heartfelt warmth, and harmony?
These are simple everyday actions. For some, a warm cup of coffee in the morning will bring relief; for others, seeing the sun. People crave ordinary human joy, to feel not just alive, but that you have the right to live fully. Not when you live for something, but simply enjoy the fact that you have the opportunity to live.
And we have probably not yet fully arrived at this realization.
We do not yet feel the energy of the new world, although it is spread all around us. We do not see or feel it because we are focused on the current situation, on what is happening. Moreover, it is not even happening to you personally, but somewhere out there.
Pull yourself out of this shell to feel the warmth that is inside. Everyone has warmth at different moments in their lives; when you focus on it, you begin to radiate this state. Nothing more is needed, no words of love or support, you don’t even need to talk about light.
Therefore, if you suddenly feel inside that you are falling into such a state, boldly radiate it around you, because people are lacking this right now.
Warmth is a universal concept. When we speak of love, there is a certain selectivity involved. But when you yourself are in a state of warmth, it radiates from you, and everyone nearby is warmed.
All of this manifests, among other ways, through contemplation — when you walk through a forest, see a babbling brook, a spring gushing from the earth, watch clouds drifting across the sky, a flower blooming, trees in blossom. When you notice these things, you automatically attune yourself.
See also: How to maintain an inner sense of harmony during turbulent times
Control. Why we failed
But there is a problem here called control.
We have not learned to let go of control. When we want something, we set conditions for the world. We are not satisfied with just warmth and peace; we want it on our terms. And everyone’s terms are different. Citizens of Russia want it on one set of terms, citizens of Ukraine on another, citizens of the USA on a third set of terms.
And when we try to formulate and present something, there is always a bundle of conditions attached.
The same is true in personal life. I want my husband to behave the way I want, I want my relationships to be the way I want, I want interactions with loved ones to be as I find acceptable. That is control.
We even filter our own desires and dreams through the prism of control.
And then it begins: for some it’s one way, for others another way, but a peaceful sky for everyone — that doesn’t stretch far enough, and simply the value of life — that doesn’t stretch far enough. Parameters immediately kick in: “yes” for these, “no” for those. That is the difficulty.
Forgot the main principle — don’t dig into the past, deal with what is in front of you now. There is no point in digging into some ancient stories, even from two months ago. What was relevant then is completely irrelevant today. The world has changed, we have changed, and we will have to learn to live with this.
The longer you try to resist, the more this process drags on. Remember the world before the pandemic. We sat for two years, some in confinement, some more free. But the point is that we all waited for everyone to be vaccinated or for everyone to get sick, for it all to pass, and for us to return to our former way of life.
Some suffered from the lack of movement, others from restrictions, but overall it was a colossal rejection of reality.
There is no turning back. The old world, the old 3D game is gone, we are living through a stage of destruction. The faster you acknowledge this, the faster you allow yourself to attune to that new reality that is manifesting, wherever you are, the better it will be for you. Unfortunately, there are no other options.
It depends on us whether we will mourn the old world, which is collapsing without our participation and with our help, including, or whether we will build something in its place.
See also Balance of control and trust – how to achieve this
Heart warmth — the currency of the new world
Therefore, cultivate heart warmth within, maintain it, because it is what allows you to wake up joyfully with a smile on your face.
If at some point you suddenly do not feel this warmth inside you, find someone nearby who transmits this warmth.
Because warmth and acceptance — this will be the currency of the new world.
Now, much of what needs to be released is coming to light, and even more will be revealed until nothing remains but your true self, while all that is superficial is stripped away. Until you are left bare, naked, sincere, authentic, and vulnerable. It is not easy to give up armor when it has protected you for so many long years.
Therefore, everyone who has the strength to remain in our regiment of the unconventional is worth their weight in gold. Every smile, every warm word, every ignored negative comment that you did not take personally—all of this carries weight.
Right now, on the scales, this currency is being tallied individually for each person. We come into life naked, we leave life naked, and our internal currency account carries weight. Each of us is responsible for what is in that account.
But our biggest problem is related to control, because we want things the way we want them, and we tie many beliefs to that desire.
However, the universe does not care how we want to be heard; we need to become vast and resonant on the vibrations of this universe. And that is a state of unconditional love. Only then will it hear us.
So first, attune yourselves, and then radiate warmth from within through small, warm, pleasant things.
See also: Why It Is Important to Keep Your Heart Open
How to Help Those Who Do Not Hear
Usually, people try to convey something with words, but these are tools that appeal to the brain, to the mind.
But people of different beliefs are unable to hear a different picture. Would you listen to something you absolutely do not believe in? What is the point of starting a dialogue if each person remains with their own opinion? I believe this is black, you believe it is white or speckled, or gray-brown-crimson. What is there to talk about?
Colorblind people cannot distinguish some colors, but you are fine with that. How to achieve dialogue? No way.
Therefore, use a universal currency — heartfelt warmth. And warmth cannot be transmitted through words. There is no need to say anything here; that is the whole point.
In a state of expansion, words are not needed; you simply exist in it and transmit it, no matter what you are doing.
Transmit this warmth to your loved ones, to those who are currently in a critical situation. Write a kind word to them; the external expression does not matter, the main thing is that at that moment you sent a message to the person. That is what is valuable.
See also: How to morally support a person in a difficult situation
Share your insights in a state of expansion? What happens to you and those around you when you experience heartfelt warmth?
The article is based on a broadcast from the #conversation_on_the_couch section “Let’s sit and warm up”