It’s wonderful when a person manages to understand what they want.
This means they have learned to distinguish their own will from the will of others, and are able not only to think clearly but also to be in harmony with their body and feelings. But this is not enough for making wishes come true.
You might say: you need to take action! Of course! But is that always the key to success? Does a person always have the energy for action? Are they always in a resourceful state, immune to doubts, fears, and a lack of faith?
There is a big difference between wanting something and allowing yourself to receive it.
If a person desires something as passionately and deeply as they like, but does not fully allow the desire to come true, no actions or magical forces will help them.
From this article, you will learn who the energy of your desires belongs to, how much you allow them to come true, and how to recognize your own desires.
How to Recognize Your Desires
First, let’s define what a desire is.
We can talk about true desires and false ones, but in my opinion, false desires don’t exist.
It’s simply that there are desires, and then there are things you cleverly substitute for them. These substitutes can be various things, for example, the will of other people or ideas from the mind, which always knows what is more profitable and “better,” but almost always lies.
What can truly be called a desire always contains energy.
When you connect with it, you gain access to a hidden power, thanks to which you can not only realize the desire but also move forward in the right direction in life. And, as a bonus, you receive magical gifts.
Imagine your life path. Along its entire length, depending on a person’s age and the challenges relevant at the moment, potentials and opportunities are scattered.
It is these that awaken our cherished desires. They are like beacons, markers on the path, telling you that you are going the right way.
And there are also temptations, by giving in to which you can easily stray from the path, turn the wrong way. As a result, you waste time and energy, and most importantly, live through a difficult experience.
Any temptation, or what a person might mistake for their own desire but which is not actually theirs, leads a person away from their true self.
Read about the 3 signs that will help you determine a true desire.
How to Feel the Energy of a Desire
A desire carries energy. This is very easy to feel.
Close your eyes, breathe deeply, and relax. Imagine that your desire has already come true.
Live through this as deeply as possible, with your body and feelings. Only the body will show whether you truly want this. The soul’s desire fills it with energy, joy, peace, and love.
You will feel expansion — this is the precise indicator of a desire’s truth.
Of course, if you have blocks, in addition to expansion and happiness, you may also feel fear and doubt. But these simply need to be worked with.
Temptations or “false desires” cause contraction, tightness, discomfort in the body, and a clear unwillingness to enter that reality.
Having lived through these states, you are unlikely to decide to bring such an idea to life. It will become clear to you that it will only drain your strength and lead your body to illness.
Go through the meditation “Meeting YOURSELF in the future,” the purpose of which is to feel the state when your most cherished dream has already come true and to imprint it in the cells of your body.
Do You Allow Your Desires to Come True? And to What Extent?
Now that you have clarified your desire, you are ready to realize how much you allow it to come true.
When people have no blocks and they totally allow their will to be fulfilled, everything happens quickly and easily. Events line up in the right way, and support comes from the most unexpected sources.
You feel that the Universe wants the same thing alongside you. All you have to do is do your part, receive, and give thanks.
But this is not a very common thing. What we see all the time is the opposite: we do not allow what the soul wants to happen.
As Stephen Covey said: “We are afraid of our own immense power. What scares us most is our light, not our darkness. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, magnificent, talented, and amazing?'”
To understand how much you allow your desire to manifest, do one more simple practice.
Close your eyes, breathe deeply, and relax. Then, ask yourself: “What percentage do I allow myself to… (state your desire).”
For example, “I allow myself to move to city N,” “I allow myself to rest,” “I allow myself to become a popular author,” “I allow myself to do what I want and think is necessary.”
You will easily understand this. From my experience working with clients, people allow their desires to manifest only 5-30%, rarely 40%.
This means we only have access to 5-40% of our own power.
The meditation «Creating the Higher Reality. The Highest Expression of YOURSELF» will help you see the limitations that prevent you from being in your highest reality.
Where the lion’s share of precious resources goes
There, in the depths, in the shadows, dwell the so-called shells. This concept shows their temporariness, their illusory nature. Shells are like dresses; you can take them off, and after that, you don’t cease to be yourself.
Shells are false selves, in which a certain role is accumulated, along with a set of corresponding patterns, ancestral and individual scenarios according to which a person acts, sometimes like a robot.
This story exists in such a way that you are completely immersed in the illusion and believe that the shells are your true self. But this is not true.
So, on the energy of each desire, there is a whole set of shells.
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For example, a woman has a desire — to become free and happy, to do what she wants, to be the mistress of her own life.
Living this desire, she understands what it is about, sees her prospects, feels how every cell responds with joy. But…
She lives with a husband who hasn’t worked for several years, “lies on the couch,” stuck in depression due to the “injustice” of being laid off from his previous job.
The woman comes home in the evenings and every time feels irritation, anger, and hopelessness.
For six months now, she has been ready to switch to freelancing, but then she would have to see her depressed and lazy husband around the clock, and this, of course, would affect her success. She is at a dead end and cannot bring herself to change the situation.
When we look at what percentage she allows herself to “become free and happy, the mistress of her own life,” we diagnose only 15%.
Of course, you won’t get far on that fuel. Where does 85% of her energy go, day after day, year after year?
Into the shells:
- The bad wife (if I were a good wife, my husband would try harder, I could inspire him),
- The rescuer (without me, he will completely perish),
- The one who fears loneliness (if I leave, I might never meet anyone else and will be alone),
- The martyr (women in my family suffered, I must be like them).
Diagnosis, as you understand, is only half the battle. Of course, you need to go further and free your energy from these shells.
After such work, the soul’s power fully returns to the person, and they themselves choose where to direct it so that the desire can manifest. Their perception of themselves, people, and the world changes, and limiting scenarios fall away.
When you analyze and complete old stories, it’s important to understand that shells are not evil. Yes, today they work against you, but just yesterday they protected you, and for our ancestors, they ensured the ability to survive.
Now the shells reflect outdated patterns, clothes you have outgrown but don’t know how to take off. To do this, in addition to special techniques, you need to accept the valuable experience, everything you have learned through them.
Any role, no matter how limiting and sad it may be, always teaches something valuable. And until you learn these lessons, we won’t move forward.
We recommend attending the seminar “Dance with the Shadow” if you want to know your True Self and unlock inner sources of energy.