In the first part of the article on this topic, we discussed why choice and focus of attention are primary in formulating your intentions. We determined that internal sensations are important when making a choice.
In this article, I propose to delve deeper into this topic. Read on to learn how to build your own collection of sensations that will serve as your helpers and guides when choosing activities and shaping the reality where you want to be.
Responsibility as a necessary element in conscious choice
In the previous article, we did not touch upon another important element that must be considered in conscious choice — that is responsibility.
4-D is a bridge between one reality, the old matrix, and the new matrix. It is not tied to the feeling of love or the ability to unite. Here, materialization is almost instantaneous.
Therefore, either you take responsibility for everything, first and foremost for emotions, so that there is no situation where I am beautiful on the outside, but inside I think: “How dare you,” and so on.
With each day, we cultivate more and more responsibility. This is not the responsibility of 3D, where I owe everyone, have shouldered a heavy burden and carry it — no. Victimhood and suffering are left in the past. You cannot pass with such a load.
Step by step, becoming more conscious, understanding my motives better, looking more inward, I orient myself more toward what is happening with me. I take others’ opinions into account, but I orient myself, first and foremost, toward what I feel.
All of this matters because it is easier provided that you clearly understand what choice you have made. After all, many people remain stuck in jobs they dislike, just as they remain in relationships that have outlived themselves. But they drag it along for some reason, because it is scary, and logic kicks in: “How can I leave into nothingness.”
The feeling of inner harmony speaks for itself; you simply feel good, regardless of whether someone is nearby, where you are, in a specific place, or just walking the streets. It is a certain vibrational state.
See also: The level of responsibility of a creator. How to relate to triggers and how to keep focus on the higher reality
How to build your collection of sensations
How to enter it. Some need to be in nature often, for others it is enough to interact with animals, any kind, even talk to birds on the street, while some need to be around friends. It doesn’t matter what it is, the main thing is that it can be reproduced.
When we encounter something great in life, we direct our attention there and amplify it. This principle is familiar to you.
Everyone in life nourishes all their fears exactly this way. Now the task is to focus on the opposite, on something great, and amplify it, keep it as a focus.
I may feel terrible today, but I have an anchored state inside, a feeling of flight, and I fixate on it.
Some need to run fast, others to fly, some love to dive — it doesn’t matter what it is, but the main thing is that I get a thrill from it, and I keep it in focus.
When I am faced with a choice between doing what makes my soul spread its wings or following ordinary, habitual, traumatized reactions, I choose to spread my wings.
Energy changes every day. It’s just that we all choose to fuss over our heavy burden, our problem.
Switch your focus, but not artificially — it is impossible to force yourself. Our ego-personality has been cultivated for years; it has armor-piercing shells in its hands, it will pass through fire, water, anything, because it has accumulated a colossal amount of strength.
And compared to this, such a subtle, implicit vibration. After all, anything can bring pleasure; everyone has their own little joys.
See also How to create an intention for a desired state
Using your gift of love to connect to the “network”
Our main message is love. At first you don’t feel love, then at some point this awakens in you, and you begin to feel love.
Most likely, some other person was involved in this, most often of the opposite sex. He or she became the trigger that helped you see yourself as in a mirror, to see the gift you have — love.
And you discover it within yourself. But from this moment, something interesting begins. Regardless of whether this person is in your life or not, how your relationship with them develops, you have discovered that gift within yourself.
In fact, you have connected to the network, gone online. This is not about virtuality.
Being on the network, being online — you go out into the network, you become visible, you connect to a boundless field and can now react from a place of love.
Whether you will live like this all the time or not is a question.
The main thing is, you are connected; no one can turn you off from the outside. You yourself can decide that you are a miserable, abandoned victim, and thereby shut off the tap.
But the wire is there. It is a one-time connection, when everything is cool, it’s great to shine, loving works out wonderfully.
The challenge is when you are attacked, when claims are made against you at work, when relatives create scandals, division of something — can you maintain your radiance, show love?
See also You are the generators of heart rate and the new world. What is important to know and how it manifests
How to vibrationally feel your choice, direction of movement
“I can’t decide whether to leave or stay?”
Choose a vibrational state.
In this case, there are two choices, they are directly opposite, either here or there. Our beloved 3D is “either-or”.
Choose a state. Sit down, imagine your vision of the future, what vibrational state I am in there. And since it is my imagination, I will invent this state for myself.
Do I want to feel inferior, limited, trapped? But the main thing is, when you have decided on the feeling, then look at what unfolds around you.
Then the Universe begins to throw up interesting situations where you feel a match with the feeling you want to experience.
And thus, stone by stone, it is built. But again, it is not you sitting logically inventing, writing down pros and cons. The reality is very plastic now, it responds immediately, instantly. A phone call comes, you immediately open some news, read announcements.
Remember, before, when you were unsure about something, you needed confirmation. Confirm that I am doing the right thing, confirm that I am good, confirm that my choice will not destroy something. Then these confirmations of low self-esteem, misunderstanding of what I am, who I am, and so on were needed.
Now these confirmations come when you don’t need them.
At one point in my life, I faced a very serious choice. I was living with my parents at the time, having returned with Anya from a failed “marriage.” My father started drinking heavily, and I thought it would be good to move out because my daughter was already in kindergarten and beginning to understand that it wasn’t just grandpa making noise, but scandals and so on. I decided I had to move out.
Around that time, a seminar by Steve Rother was planned in Moscow. I was invited to translate there. I was thinking about how to go, where I would find an apartment for the night, and so on. In the end, they said one translator was arranged, and a second wasn’t needed. I sat there in doubt, wondering about finances—I had counted on that money, and now it wasn’t coming. This is called not counting your chickens before they hatch.
I remember I was stuck in doubt, wondering if I should do it—clearly, the choice seemed made, but circumstances intervened. Then a scandal happened with my dad that became decisive. In response, I felt a desire to earn money and throw it in his face.
The point is, I was doubting whether I could handle it or not, and he helped burn the bridge because it was impossible to stay in those conditions. Now we have a wonderful relationship. Not only does he not drink, there are no arguments, and most importantly, he has become a support.
But back then, it was such a dark period, a very powerful confirmation—you’re doing it, there are no options, the bridge behind you is burning, do you want to stay in this hell or move forward?
So if you’ve just made a decision, various situations immediately start to show up and highlight themselves: someone says something, you hear news, something else is written. You are pushed in the direction you’ve chosen.
But if you haven’t made a choice, there will constantly be discord.
See also: How to keep your focus on the reality where you want to be
And what states are in your collection of sensations?
The article is based on a broadcast from the #conversation_on_the_couch section “Choice and focus determine reality”