Few people are lucky enough to have documentary footage of how a new relationship begins with the one you’ll walk through life with.
Simply because it rarely happens like this: you see a person and realize, “THIS IS MINE.”
And immediately start taking photos or recording video.
Sounds funny, by golly )))
But that’s exactly how it happened for Maris and me.
We met at the Kryon Conference in Riga in April 2011, where I was present as a translator, which meant I was constantly in the frame — of a camera or video recorder.
I even have a video of our very first “meeting,” I put it in quotes because at that moment I was flying past Maris, who was checking tickets at the entrance, at a crazy speed )))
During the break, he came up and said he was advised to definitely get to know Alena…
— Starovoitova?
— I don’t know, I didn’t remember the last name )))
The next day he showed up again with the words: “I looked online to see who Alena Starovoitova is.”
— And?
— I liked your materials. You and I speak the same language.
A little later, I had a brilliant idea to record an interview where I compare my first visit to the Kryon conference in 2007 as a participant with the “inside” view as part of the Kryon team.
I needed someone to introduce me and ask 2 questions.
The conference videographer, Alexey Obukhov, brought Maris. It turned out he’s a specialist in HOW to ask questions (he does regression — using leading questions to guide people into past lives and the space between lives).
We record a short interview, I answer the questions I came up with myself, and suddenly I hear: “Alena, where can those watching this video find you?”
That’s MY favorite trick?!
In any interview or video, I ALWAYS ask this question at the end so that someone interested in the material can easily find the author and their website.
That’s how I found out we not only speak the same language but also think in the same direction!
That very interview at the Kryon conference
Long ago, I used to believe that with a loved one, paradise is in a hut, as long as there’s love.
Time showed that love alone, even mutual love, isn’t enough for a life together.
Later, I sought understanding in a partner.
I had just seriously delved into metaphysics, and it was important to me that my partner understood what I was passionate about, what the meaning of my work was.
And that’s what happened, except that strong people automatically attract weaker partners, and in times of trouble, there’s simply no one to lean on — a weak partner will more likely help you sink than keep you afloat…
To make a long story short, I’ll just say that Maris “got me” with a single phrase:
I will always be by your side. Where you go, I go.
MIND BLOWN!
It’s hard to explain, but up until that moment, I had always been the one helping everyone, supporting, pushing, helping overcome crises… being a lifesaver for all occasions.
And only a few people did the same in return. Close friends — yes, but not partners.
100% paradigm shift.
I won’t say Maris is the ideal man/husband; we spent several months getting used to each other, sometimes quite harshly…
But he kept his promise!
Since May of last year, I’ve had 12 trips — for work, leisure, and vacation. And only in April of this year did I fly to Kyiv alone.
Before, it was hard for me to imagine a man in my space:
- who is present a lot, yet you don’t feel an invasion of personal space;
- who won’t be bothered by my crazy work schedule;
- who not only feeds himself but also makes sure I eat;
- who constantly pushes me toward new achievements (though I can push anyone myself);
- who handles, in a manly way, those who made his wife cry;
- who will say over and over again: You want it, let’s do it!
Yes, yes, just imagining that such people exist — in this case, men.
Dear girls, women!
If you are currently in forced solitude,
If you have recently left a painful relationship,
If you live with a man who doesn’t deserve you,
Know that the Universe is NOT idle!
Believe that on our little planet, there ABSOLUTELY is someone who will appreciate you for who you are!
Don’t despair, live and enjoy every moment, and the Universe itself will take care of the place and time of your meeting!
Well, tomorrow we are celebrating the anniversary of our wedding, which happened three months after we met.