Many of us have a trait like the manifestation of masculine energy, and in its matrix, old quality at that.
It’s an attempt to push, force a situation, control everything, instead of giving an impulse to the flow.
Read on to find out why control and the bulldozer principle don’t work in the new energies and what is replacing them.
The Container Principle
In the new energies, you cannot control anything, but you can learn to integrate into the flow and then manage what emerges.
Control and goal-chasing are remnants of masculine energy expression in the 3D world. Everything we’ve been doing lately is following the flow, observing.
The principle is simple. You have an idea, you create an empty container, but you don’t try to fill it with whatever comes to mind from your intellect. Instead, you watch how everything unfolds.
We did this at the learning center. First, we moved all paid courses there, created separate groups, containers for learning, and watched what people did there. So from week to week, some small details in the learning center change; we see what’s in demand and what’s not — and remove it.
This will be one of the main trends starting from September 2022: not trying to force things or invent something from the mind, but creating an idea, arranging something within the space, and then observing.
You don’t nail things down permanently: “This is exactly how I want it.” Often, based on feelings, the results are tens of times better than when you come up with something from the mind, do it, and then it turns out it doesn’t work, it’s inconvenient, it causes discomfort.
See also: What it means to live in trust of what is happening
Trusting the Flow
So pay attention to where you are going with the flow. You planned your tasks for the day, went somewhere, and instead of keeping your entire huge to-do list in your memory, you veered off in another direction because you felt like it right then, because it was more relevant and important than everything written down.
This is unfolding very strongly right now, and it’s better to learn to manage and use it at the initial stage than to end up below the baseboard later.
The theme of control is gone. You don’t get slapped on the wrist for it yet, but there are already consequences when you try to force someone to do something.
There is no universal rule for everyone. See where the energy is going, enter the flow, observe, make some changes, and learn to manage it.
You begin to co-create, rather than trying to use the force of your personality to shove something somewhere and fill it the way you like. So pauses for self-reflection, observing from the sidelines what is happening and how it unfolds, will be winning strategies for a long time.
The main task is to learn to manage the creation of space and the clearing of space.
An old example of mine: if your room is full of boxes and you never unpack them, you have nowhere to put anything new. So clear the space, create a container, a reservoir, and add the idea. Then watch how it unfolds.
This topic can be expanded into relationships, work issues, and interactions with people.
Wherever you now apply this from what is relevant to you, it will unfold everywhere, because in this case the same process is happening.
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The Difference Between “Going with the Flow” and Goal-Chasing. A River Metaphor
When you go with the flow, there are no goals as such, there is no plan to do something, because the flow is movement.
In the flow, there is a direction you have chosen, and everything you do, you check against it. There is no plan, no goals, no tasks. There is no such thing as if you didn’t complete your tasks, then you failed, you’re a loser, you need to try again.
I tried and realized it’s useless, because these two concepts are from different planes, from different worlds.
In the 3D world, I set a goal, I go towards it, I don’t see obstacles, if I don’t reach it, I’m a loser. But here it’s a flow state, this is from the 4D level.
Let me give you an example with a river. There is only a direction, what difference does it make to the river how it flows into the sea? It can flow straight, though often rivers don’t flow straight, they encounter obstacles, a mountain, they flow around it, something happens, the riverbed shifts, and this is exactly what a dynamic state is, which is not static.
If you try to go along the old riverbed (because you set yourself a goal) which has dried up, where there is no path, you walk slowly. In the scheme of eternity, you will eventually get where you were going.
But it is many times easier, when you encounter an obstacle, not to break through it, but like a river, to change your course. This is the state of flow.
The problem arises when you set a goal and go towards it rigidly. You are not in the flow, you cannot go there, there is no passage, but you try. As a result, you stand still.
But how to set a direction, how to choose what to do with it, these are questions from the mind. How to distinguish the mind’s hints from intuition? Or, how to understand if it’s my fear or is it really the heart speaking? When I hear such questions, I understand they come from the mental level, you haven’t moved to the next one yet.
As soon as these questions fall away, you begin to hear yourself, a merging with the soul occurs, then the next level is merging with the monad, with the higher centers, and so on.
Right now, some of the people who come to our courses are already at the stage of connecting with the monad. One of the signs to determine that this is happening to you is as if a high-voltage wire has been plugged in, the sensations are amazing.
See also Work as Joyful Co-Creation. Secrets of Effectiveness in the Energies of the New Time
Why It’s Hard to Achieve a Goal or Solve a Problem by Forcing Your Way Through
It’s not for nothing they say, don’t try to break through a wall with your forehead, you just need to open up in that moment. Einstein’s famous phrase: “A problem cannot be solved on the same level it was created.”
This is how goal-setting happens. You set a goal or want to solve a problem, and you are so focused on it that the mind filters out everything that lies beyond its boundaries.
This is a huge complexity — the mind really does filter things out, and we see examples of this instantly. Most often, it’s with a negative sign.
If you can’t get pregnant or if you’ve been left, you’re worried, you’re in suffering, and no matter where you look, everywhere you see either moms with strollers or pregnant women. And in terms of loneliness and abandonment, you see kissing couples everywhere and feel worthless, flawed.
But there aren’t actually more of them. It’s just that you’re currently immersed in this topic, in this case, in suffering and worry, and you don’t see anything else.
It’s the same with a problem: as soon as you focus on it, you don’t see the solution.
How do you turn toward the solution? Stop thinking in terms of the problem and start looking around. Don’t bang your head against the wall, but turn slightly, loosen your grip, let go of fixation. The most important thing is to keep your sensors wide open and ask yourself over and over again, so your mind doesn’t filter something out: Where is my focus right now?
Because as it happens in life, you’re focused on the problem. You go for a walk — you think about it. You go to the store — you think about it. You go to sleep — you think about it. You feed your kids — you think about it. You’re in it all the time, not allowing yourself to step out.
But when you artificially and forcibly switch yourself into the present: if I’m eating now, then I’m eating; if I’m going to the store, I look at what I encounter along the way. Focus on something matters.
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Are you able to trust the flow in your everyday tasks?
This article is based on materials from the broadcast “Two Features of the Period” and the client transmission “Hot Seat, 11.24.22”