Female energy in relationships is a specific force that nourishes a partner, maintains balance in the couple, and sets the tone for everything that happens between two people. Many women know this theoretically. But in a moment of conflict, resentment, or betrayal, this energy is automatically shut off — and this is where destruction begins, initially unnoticed.
Many men and women have come here with a global mission. It is just that the globality of men differs greatly from the globality of women.
Women do not build plans millennia ahead, even those who have a well-expressed masculine energy but are organized and structured.
But unlike men, women are connected through our female cycles and rhythms to the Divine maternal energy, especially those who are mothers. We still have this component, even if not fully conscious, even if this part is absent in religion, but we have this connection present somewhere inside. Plus, female bodies leave their imprint.
Learn how to maintain an inner flow of love while in conflict, without losing yourself or destroying the energetic balance in the relationship.
The Energy of a Woman — Nourishing
Everyone has heard that female energy is nourishing, giving, replenishing, and providing energy in relationships, so that a man can, on one hand, soften his globality, and on the other hand, balance his masculine fire, drive, “I see the goal, I see no obstacles.”
This is what the interaction in a couple, in relationships, was built upon, and it does not matter whether it is a romantic relationship or a business partnership.
Recall history, great men with global missions. There was always a certain woman beside them, granting him softness, wisdom, and most importantly, stopping him from irreparable mistakes, outbursts of aggression, and uncontrollable emotions.
We have observed this repeatedly in our lives, in completely different types of relationships and partnerships, not only personal ones.
It so happens that women seek a wall in relationships to lean on and rest against. Even if you are strong, sometimes you want to feel weak, to have the opportunity to relax, to hear: “relax, I will handle everything.”
Often we entrusted men with the feeling of our safety. I do not mean a “three-dimensional” manifestation, but how it generally develops.
And a woman next to a man served as a regulating “instrument” that brought balance, harmony, and fulfillment through her connection with Divine feminine energies.
But what happens when we are hurt, when we take offense?
Disconnection (blocking) of the feminine flow
Our men hardly develop, if we do not consider the business topic, making money. There are very few balanced men. Many of those who are into spirituality go somewhere into the mind, philosophizing.
There are not many men interested in their development from the perspective of the spiritual path. This is the prose of life. They simply have different tasks.
Research from the Gottman Institute — one of the leading laboratories in relationship psychology — shows that a partner’s inability to regulate their own emotions is one of the four main predictors of a couple’s breakup. More details.
Therefore, it is we — women — who connected with the Divine part, healed our inner man, inner woman, know that we need to keep our heart open, that only through the heart does the alignment of the vertical occur.
This topic is mainly characteristic of women. There are exceptions, but if we draw a general line, the percentage ratio will be 90 and 10%.
And then such an open, vulnerable woman, one who allows herself to be both strong and weak, receives what we perceive as a blow from the closest person.
What happens at that moment? For me, it is an immediate shift into verticality. I do not fall into victimhood, as many women do, and I do not start feeling sorry for myself. I know clearly: my inner warrior, my verticality, is the answer to all life’s situations.
This does not affect anything; my ideas continue to flow, and I can work productively because I work through my spirit. But at that moment, my personal part is cut off. It is as if I detach from myself the one who had a hand in this.
Most likely, the same thing happens to you, only on autopilot, and it happens to me on autopilot too, but for me it occurs through a switch.
This spiritual part is too strong, the masculine part is too strong; communicating with them is many times more pleasant and easier for me. And if some character appears who, in my opinion, still cannot grow up and become wiser, then that is his problem, not mine.
In a woman, automatically, involuntarily, without any ulterior motives, a cutting off of this flow occurs. Moreover, this can be specifically towards one person. Towards your family, loved ones, children, and those around you, you can still radiate love. But specifically towards him, since he “hit” me, didn’t understand, didn’t support, cursed me out, we shut off this flow. Does this story sound familiar?
See also: Why are there so few men engaged in spiritual development?!
Lack of connection between masculine and feminine energy
The whole essence of the interaction between a man and a woman lies in this flow of energy, which is essentially the only possibility as long as they have not balanced themselves, as long as they have not connected with their feminine essence (which exists in everyone).
This flow comes from women. Most often from those with whom you are in a sexual relationship. In a business partnership, there are no sexual relationships, but exchange and interaction are still present.
And here you have cut off this flow. They lose this wisdom, the ability to empathize and feel. Most importantly, they lose emotional regulation. They go “off the deep end,” so to speak. Not in terms of sex, not in terms of some physical attraction or violence, they simply stop managing their emotions altogether, as if they have never heard of anger management.
The slightest word against them — an explosion, the slightest disagreement — an explosion, the slightest mismatch in plans — an explosion. This is the manifestation of that strong masculine energy when it is not balanced by feminine energy.
And our men turn into rigid, focused, intolerant, categorical individuals, because we cut off the channel of softness and wisdom at that moment.
If they have not cultivated this within themselves, and for the most part they do not open it within themselves, considering vulnerability a weakness that must be suppressed, then they turn into that something.
See also: The Birth of Sovereign Masculine
The flow of love must flow continuously to everyone
Therefore, no matter what happens, no matter how painful it may be for you at some moment, even if the culprit of this pain is nearby, our most important part is to preserve this flow of Divine Feminine from the heart to everyone!
The flow of love must continue to flow, and this must be prescribed within yourself.
When this dawned on me, I no longer close myself off. This does not mean that everything is fine in the relationship, that there are no excesses, and that my character suddenly turned from an evil, horned, cloven-hoofed one into a soft and fluffy one — no.
But I realized that one of the most important functions and tasks is not to shut down, not to close off, to continue letting through, in order to be an empty vessel through which this energy flows endlessly and constantly.
And note the difference: not simply to nourish and fill, because you are a superwoman born from Adam’s rib. No.
But because many of you have opened this channel, which can be called the channel of Unconditional Love, and have connected with our Divine Mother.
While the majority of the male population on Earth, specifically those with manifested yang energy, have not done this. They simply have no other way to receive this energy.
And this is our contribution to the development of human civilization.
Go through the Divine Union meditation. The goal of the meditation is to pass through yourself the pure feminine flow and the pure masculine flow of energy, to unite them within yourself, to feel what it means to be in balance, and to anchor this state.
Key Idea
If we want to change the world, there is no other way. We always start with ourselves, open all of this for ourselves, heal ourselves, and then the main task is to keep the heart open not only for ourselves, but for everyone around us.
This is the main key idea I wanted to convey. If you have unlocked this vibrational state of Love within yourself, the main task is — the world is going crazy, no matter what happens around you, no matter how much pressure is put on you, no matter how rudely you are treated — inside, this channel must remain as open as possible.
Otherwise, what we observe on the world stage will continue to happen.
On the level of personal interaction, do as you wish. If you want — don’t talk, if you want — sort things out, if you want — play the silent game — all of that is secondary.
The main thing is that the Love and Light you have discovered within yourself over these years continues to flow, radiate, and shine from you. Some have more, some have less, it doesn’t matter.
Do not shut down, do not close yourself off out of revenge or resentment towards a person, when it comes to masculine manifested energy.
Are you able to “keep your heart open” and not block the flow of love during a conflict?