Statistics show that 90% of spouses have experienced infidelity at least once in their lives.
Let’s look at the love triangle from the perspective of energy interactions. When interacting with any people, we establish an energetic contact and exchange energy.
At the moment of sexual interaction, a colossal exchange of energy and information occurs. During this contact, we receive energetic imprints of the person we are interacting with.
This is why they say that the consequences of sexual interaction last for a long time. This is not a reason to avoid sexual contact; you just need to know how to properly exit it at the level of the sexual chakra, or more precisely, to break the energetic threads.
At the end of the article, there is an audio recording of the training seminar on which this article is based.
4 Types of Infidelity
From an energetic point of view, infidelity can be divided into 4 types:
- Infidelity at the level of love. This occurs when a person experiences deep feelings for two people at once, for example, two women, while being married and meeting a new love.
- The second type of infidelity appears when there is sexual dissatisfaction or different sexual temperaments. This kind of infidelity is justified from the point of view of logic and a sober outlook on life, because prolonged sexual abstinence causes various sexual diseases, including cancer, and can lead to insanity.
- The third type of infidelity is the most condemned by society, when a person is used to achieving peak states and gets a thrill from changing partners.
- The fourth type of infidelity is a shock contract. When a person’s life goes in a vicious circle, life becomes unbearable, at that moment a person enters your life and turns everything in your life upside down. Having fulfilled this function (in this case, infidelity), they simply disappear, leaving you to deal with a huge number of revelations.
This is that very shock contract that we make before incarnation: that if we get stuck, if we act in a certain way, if we don’t see a way out of a situation, please, soul, appear in my life so that I have a chance to change something in it, so that I can look at the world with different eyes.
How to “Properly” Exit Sexual Relationships
If you are leaving a relationship, make sure you do it “cleanly,” that you have cut all the threads that connected you to that person, including at the level of the second chakra.
It’s simple to do. Imagine you have huge scissors in your hands, and you imagine a cord stretched from your second center to your partner’s second center. You simply cut this cord.
If one time is not enough and you feel some attraction or dissatisfaction, cut it again.
This is what is called a clean exit from a sexual relationship.
See also: Cutting Etheric Threads: How to Break Unnecessary Connections with People
Features of Energy Exchange in a Love Triangle
When two people of the opposite sex engage in sexual interaction, everything is clear. They energetically read the positive and negative qualities of their partner and accept them into their own energy field.
What do you do when you lack certain qualities and want to acquire them?
For example, you lack determination, you want to be more active, more businesslike, you lack self-respect. You understand all of this, but you take no steps to obtain it, to change something in your life, to make it a part of you.
You can get all of this by entering into a sexual relationship with a person of the opposite sex. But here’s an interesting nuance. What if the qualities you desire, the ones you so lack for fulfillment in life, belong to people of your own gender? Should you enter into a homosexual relationship? Some do, but for most, it is unacceptable.
Enter the third character, who connects two women through a man, or two men through a woman. In this case, the wife acquires the qualities of the husband’s mistress, and the mistress acquires the qualities of the wife. Or vice versa, the lover acquires the qualities of the husband, and the husband acquires the qualities of the lover.
For example, a woman has a wonderful husband who has made a dazzling career; he is successful, active, knows how to achieve his goals, and earns a lot of money, but he pays no attention to his wife, simply because he has no time for it.
And the woman craves attention, warmth, affection, and support, so she finds herself a lover who exactly matches her inner need. The man is affectionate, gentle, attentive, but unfulfilled in life, because his entire focus is not on ambition, but, for example, on warmth of heart.
The woman has sexual contact with both her husband and her lover, and through her, an exchange of energy between the two men takes place.
As a result, the lover achieves success by acquiring the qualities of her husband, and her husband becomes more affectionate and attentive by acquiring the qualities of the lover.
Thus, from an energetic perspective, this is how a love triangle works. When the energy of two characters of the same gender connects and flows through the third element — the woman who connects them.
This is one of the ways we attract into our lives what we are lacking. Do you like this way out of the situation — getting what you want from life through a lover or a mistress?
See also: The Meaning of Sexual Energy from a Spiritual Perspective. What to Do When It Overwhelms You
There is a way out of this situation, a rather lengthy one, but more acceptable in my opinion — to start working on yourself, to become whole not through sexual interaction, but precisely because you have claimed all those qualities you so lacked in life through your own development and work on yourself.
Everything that happens in your life is an experience that gives you the opportunity to grow and move forward.
If something doesn’t suit you in your current relationships, or in how events are unfolding in your life, you always have the opportunity to make a different choice in favor of what will be more comfortable for you and what will serve your highest good.
To do this, you need to identify exactly what doesn’t suit you and how you want to make changes in your life, what exactly you want to receive. And after that, begin to act based on the final result you have set for yourself.
And if this requires leaving a relationship, there’s no need to despair. Life holds a great number of surprises and miracles, an immense amount of potentials and opportunities that are ready to enter your life as soon as you make the decision to change what doesn’t suit you.
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Audio Recording
I prepared this audio recording as a bonus for a joint project with Andrey Ryskov.
The material level is beginner.
The recording covers the following topics:
- Basic concepts of relationships,
- Types of relationships that exist in the modern world,
- What attracts people to each other, at what level their interaction occurs,
- What happens when a third “element” appears in an established couple.
Listen to the audio recording:
Based on the original Russian article from Keys of Mastery (kluchimasterstva.ru), published since 2010.