Every person looks at the world and everything happening in it through their own prism of beliefs. Everyone has their own picture of the world and, moreover, their own reality, which they create and experience every second.
Right now, these differences are becoming more and more noticeable. At the same time, people often try on someone else’s experience and judge others by themselves.
In this article, read why you shouldn’t do this and why such a habit is dangerous.
We all radiate a certain vibration outward and, accordingly, receive different experiences.
To understand other people, you need to be expansive and allow for different possibilities. Communication on social media lets you see different lives and different experiences, but even so, there is still a noticeable tendency to measure everyone by yourself.
People used to say: “a person judges others by themselves.” That is, they automatically assume that if I behave a certain way in a given situation, then another person will behave, think, and draw the same conclusions.
Because of this, expectations are placed, and when they aren’t met, complaints, indignation, and disappointment arise.
Or a similar habit — taking any text on social media, any story, and applying it to yourself, often devaluing the other person, or conversely, yourself.
For example, I write in my stories that it’s -7°F here. Someone replies: “Well, is that really cold? It’s -27°F here!”
Why compare different climates and different time zones in this case?
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Does Your Reality Match Someone Else’s
The reality of other people almost never coincides with your own.
That’s why when we look at our successes, achievements, transformations, or more precisely, the results of our transformations and inner work, we want to transfer this experience onto other people.
By the same principle, we want to influence other people, especially those close to us, like our parents. But they are a product of their own reality. If we recall Turgenev’s “Fathers and Sons,” it becomes obvious that the conflict of generations is an eternal question.
At the core of each generation lie certain principles, values, skills, programs, and beliefs that can categorically not align and diverge, even if the age difference is only 10 years.
The same applies to spiritual development. Someone has just stepped onto this path, while another already has rich experience.
This is precisely why our answers to audience questions have already been divided into 3 parts. Because the question, seemingly the same, requires different answers for each part of the audience. This is because each person is at their own level. And the tools needed to solve the same situation will work in one case (for one person) but not in another.
For some, affirmations, mantras, and little rituals for making wishes work wonderfully. When a person “grows up,” they start using vision boards and focusing.
Then they move up a notch and begin working with intention rather than desire. Next, you are lifted even higher, and the principle of manifestation and the principles of creation come into play.
So it turns out that in just one question about working with desires, we already see 4 levels of answers that can conflict with each other, depending on the level the person is at.
This is precisely why there are no points of intersection between people who live in 3D consciousness and you. At some point, it may turn out that you are on parallel lines. They are on one, and you are on another. So what’s the point of trying on their life and experience for yourself?
It would look somewhat strange to try on something you have long outgrown. You have already outgrown that sandbox; what they are fussing with there has long been irrelevant to you.
It’s important to understand that parallel lines do not intersect.
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Let’s examine the question of how your views on life and beliefs influence the reality in which you live.
What is the danger of trying on someone else’s reality?
My recommendation is to maintain the position of an observer. No matter what text you read, don’t try to immediately apply it all to yourself. This leads to certain problems.
For example, messages asking for help for homeless animals, etc.
People who take all these messages upon themselves have or will have serious heart problems, because they go through heartbreak, in other words, they take everything too much to heart.
In this transference, there is also great danger from an energetic point of view.
What we radiate is what we receive back. What we fixate on, we multiply. Why attract suffering and the like into your life?
See also: How to Maintain High Vibrations in 3D Reality Situations
What and why hooks you in other people’s realities, experiences, and information
“Trying something on for size” means you’re reading a text and you see yourself in it. Something hooks you, like a fish on a line.
This indicates that there’s a small, unacknowledged shadow aspect inside you that’s getting hooked. So it’s no surprise when everyone reads the same text and sees something different.
If the topic isn’t about you at all, it won’t hook you. What always hooks you is what’s already within you.
How Not to Project Your Reality onto Others
If someone asks you a question and you have experience with it, you can share it.
But don’t expect that the person you’re telling will get the same result. There’s also a danger here of starting to measure everyone by your own yardstick.
For example, if I say I don’t make plans and I don’t have a dream in the conventional sense, it doesn’t mean everyone should think that way. For me, a desire that can be fulfilled with money isn’t a desire, it’s a purchase. But everyone’s purchasing power is different.
And because people look at everything through the lens of what’s inside them, they don’t even allow for the possibility that another person is in different circumstances, makes different choices, and as a result lives a completely different life.
It’s like you ate some fruit, it made you sick, and now you’re telling everyone that this fruit is inedible.
If you work with people, don’t measure everyone by yourself; look at what their situation is. Because your experience and your tools can’t always be applied to other people’s situations and experiences in their pure form.
A recommendation for everyone else — take a closer look at where you’re putting on someone else’s pants, someone else’s dress. Don’t apply all the information you hear or read to yourself, especially negative information. Take the position of an observer; you’ll be healthier, literally.
Have you observed in yourself or your loved ones the habit of measuring everyone by your own yardstick? In what situations does it show up?
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