At some point in life, you realize that the drive to do everything perfectly becomes an impossible task.
You’ve already loaded so much onto yourself that you simply don’t have the strength to handle it all.
And on top of that, complaints are “pouring out of every crack” towards everyone, and most of all, towards yourself.
A wild need arises to throw off the burden of the “straight-A student” and do everything as it comes, or maybe even deliberately worse than you could.
What is this, a protest of the soul or temporary powerlessness?
You will find the answer in this article.
Before birth, the soul clearly knows what, when, and how to do. It knows its main task.
But at the moment of incarnation into the physical world, into high density, we forget everything.
We remember one thing — we must do something in the best possible way, to the maximum.
But what? God only knows, or rather, the soul.
On a genetic level, many people already have the “straight-A student complex” hardwired from the start.
Add to this the corresponding upbringing.
The Striving to Be the Best at Everything
Our mothers also don’t remember that “perfect” thing that needs to be done. They themselves tried to be ideal in everything, and they taught us to strive to be the very best.
So from generation to generation, this knowledge-punishment is passed on, and the “excellent” mark is imprinted more and more into our DNA.
The soul remembers and tries to show what really needs to be done in the best way and when, but the connection with it is lost.
The need to be good is present in everything and always, and pushes us towards corresponding actions.
And so, without noticing it yourself, you are already helping others. They don’t even ask, but you see how hard it is for them, and it’s not difficult for you to do their work.
And even perfectly: “I am the kindest one!”
This one can’t do anything at all. You know for sure that you will do it better: “I am the most capable one! And this is some help for him.”
Before you know it, what was once help has become your duty.
And it has to be perfect! And so on, year after year, from one job to another, from one husband to another. And your strength is running out.
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Any one of us can list a whole set of rules, functions, and requirements that an ideal daughter, student, wife, employee, mother must meet…
Mutiny on the Ship
When a rebellion brews in your soul, when you no longer have the life force to pull the cart like a draft horse, you begin to hate this goodness in yourself, to see that you are being used to the fullest.
This is that moment when the Soul, simply straining itself, screams: “Not that, not like that, and not there!”
Something inside clicks and the question arises: “What am I doing? Why? For what reason?”
This is followed by a process of struggling with your amazing ability.
Everyone struggles in their own way: from doing nothing to complete apathy.
In reality, this ability is amazing, wonderful, divine. In short, just what you need!
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So what is the soul’s task?
To shine, or rather, to let divine light pass through without distortion – that is the very task.
What does it mean to shine? To live every moment of your life here and now with a full spectrum of feelings and sensations, to love, to enjoy, and to give thanks.
This is the one thing we must do excellently. To transmit divine light, unconditional love. That’s it.
It is both simple and not simple at all.
How much work on yourself will it take to purify yourself to the state of a clear glass, letting through the entire spectrum of this light?
This is where that wonderful quality will be needed — to do things excellently.
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I hope it’s now clear why you don’t need to fight it, but rather direct it inward, to find yourself more quickly, your own truth, which you should then gift to the universe.
Let’s take a closer look at how to do this.
Realize that everyone is an A-student at heart
Every person is the best, the smartest, the strongest for themselves.
They will handle it themselves with their own tasks. If they ask for help, help them, give them a fishing rod to catch fish — empower them.
If they can’t ask, offer your shoulder and believe that they will manage their task, no matter how hard it is right now.
Find out how dangerous the role of a rescuer is and why you shouldn’t do everything for others.
Be an A-student for yourself
Create your own world in which you are happy. This is the best world.
At every moment, do everything in the best way you possibly can.
Use all the potentials and opportunities of the current moment:
- Making borscht – make the tastiest one possible right now, pay attention to the process, and channel your energy into your creativity.
Don’t think about your children’s unlearned lessons, unpaid bills, or a quarrel with your husband or boss. It’s clear what kind of brew you’ll get, and with what intention it will go to those who eat it.
- Working at your job – make it your highest achievement. Enjoy the skill of confidently handling tasks.
Even if you didn’t succeed at everything due to lack of knowledge, don’t worry. After all, you’re not a wizard, you’re just learning.
You have a unique opportunity to bring your new knowledge and recently gained experience to life right here and now.
Isn’t that worthy of admiration?
- A strong wind is blowing – bend down, feel the joy that your back is flexible.
- It’s raining – open your umbrella, be glad you have one.
- No umbrella – turn your face to the drops of heavenly grace and rejoice that universal abundance is pouring down on you in this moment.
- It hurts – sob until you’re exhausted, until your voice is hoarse, until it lets go. And when it lets go – rejoice that it’s already in the past, and now – there is lightness.
- Roar like a wild panther or burst with happiness in ringing laughter.
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Live through all the emotions you want to experience in the moment, feel every cell of your being.
Identify which of these emotions make you happy and which do not, which give you strength and which drain you, which uplift you and which bring you down to the ground. This is how you will come to know yourself.
Make a conscious choice and keep with you Happiness, Light, and Love.
This is how you fulfill your purpose or, if you prefer, your soul’s task. And, most importantly, you do it brilliantly!