As practice shows—and I have conducted many trainings—most people, especially beginners engaged in spiritual development, tend to give a lot and are completely unable to receive.
They experience extreme discomfort when someone gives them a simple compliment or offers them a gift. They immediately think that the giver will definitely ask for something in return, and so on.
As a result, discomfort arises. This personality type includes a huge group of people, especially those who read a lot about positive thinking and spiritual development.
The difficulty is that this group of people finds it very easy to share information and give something of themselves to others, but when they try to do the same in the opposite direction, problems arise, a feeling of discomfort appears, and the channel of receiving closes.
And there is the opposite situation, which occurs in those people who, for the first time in a completely unpredictable way, end up at the Keys to Mastery training.
These are people who take a lot for themselves, they have very high demands in life, they are used to taking, taking, and taking everywhere, and they give very little.
This situation is rare at our Keys to Mastery, but in life, if you look around you, there are many such people.
This is a consequence of an imbalance: the channels of receiving and giving must be balanced, working in both directions.
There are various methods with which the channels of receiving and giving can be cleared, so to speak.
On the other hand, you already know that intention works most powerfully, and if you confirm a certain phrase or affirmation repeatedly, it will definitely happen.
You don’t need visualizations or anything special for this; simply, waking up in the morning, give yourself the setting over and over again:
“I am balancing my channel of receiving and giving.”
If you practice meditation, repeat this phrase many times so you don’t forget it, regardless of what topic you are meditating on or what breathing exercises you are doing.
You wake up in the morning and, before opening your eyes, say to yourself, either silently or out loud: “I am balancing my channel of receiving and giving.”
This is a practice that works very well: the more you talk about it, the more it is imprinted in your subconscious, and the faster the process begins.
So, I repeat once again: the very first thing to pay attention to is how balanced your channel of receiving and giving is.
See also: Why the Law of Attraction Doesn’t Work
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How to check if your channel of receiving is balanced?
Remember how you react to gifts that are given to you…
When a person passes by and gives you a compliment, do you blush, do you turn pale, do you not believe it? What happens to you in that moment?
This especially applies to women, and to a lesser extent to men. Since my audience is mostly female, this applies to absolutely everyone.
Typically, women do not believe that they are worthy of love, worthy of abundance, simply because their life experience has led to their self-esteem being lowered to the maximum.
What happens in that moment on a global scale, from the perspective of energy and the message sent to the Universe?
You receive a compliment, you get embarrassed, you feel discomfort.
In that moment, you send a signal to the Universe that I am not worthy of this.
Perhaps you have some sexual limitations, perhaps you don’t consider yourself beautiful, perhaps you’re just in a bad mood, and you’re not used to compliments.
They tell you: “Great, wonderful,” and in response, you send a signal: “I am not worthy of this, I can’t, I don’t want to, I don’t accept it, I don’t take it.”
In this case, your inner feelings carry weight, how worthy you are of abundance, worthy of prosperity, worthy of love, worthy of joy — the list can be endless, because the list of what exactly you are worthy of is limitless.
I generally have this position in life: I believe that we are all worthy of the maximum positivity simply for the fact that we incarnated here.
After all, there, at the level of the Higher Dimensions, everything is very simple, in fact, everything is very simple. Starting from the fifth dimension, all thoughts materialize. You just think it, you receive it immediately.
But we have to go through many lessons, an insane number of trials, just to somehow step into the role of the Creator and begin to model something in our lives, to change something.
Therefore, simply for the fact that we incarnated here, we are already obliged to have everything, and to the maximum.
“But why don’t we have all of this?”
There is an amazing phrase that everything you truly want to have, you have in this very moment.
Everything you truly want to have, you ALREADY have.
Maybe it’s time to want and allow yourself MORE?