Hidden Mechanisms Blocking Your Money #3
In the previous article, we figured out where limiting beliefs about money come from and what steps you should take to reprogram them.
As a reminder, these are 1) Become aware of which money myths are weighing on you, 2) Define your new mindset paradigm, 3) Act from your new paradigm.
At which stage does a breakdown most often occur
A small group of people gets stuck at stages #1 and #2.
1. Limiting beliefs
To see your own limitations, you need to be extremely HONEST with yourself.
But how can you do that if you DON’T know yourself, DON’T understand what drives you, DON’T want to break out of your usual conditions, even if they are uncomfortable for you?!
If you constantly remain in the role of a VICTIM, then you blame anyone but yourself for your failures and lack of success.
Or you cling with your teeth to the little you have in life — just so you don’t lose it, out of a panicked fear of the future, a fear of change.
If this is your case, then you first need to deal with your fears, learn to trust the Universe, and finally “see the light” — i.e., see and accept where you are at this moment in time.
Today you have exactly as much as you ALLOW yourself to have!
See also How to work through limiting beliefs about money. Three simple techniques
2. New money paradigm
Where could it come from if you are surrounded by people who are also just barely making ends meet and living paycheck to paycheck…
You would like to believe the Universe is abundant, but the real world shows the OPPOSITE. Only a handful of the “moneyed” are thriving; everyone else lives below the poverty line.
This is exactly what you hear every day in the media, as well as in blockbuster films {a clear example is the film “Prosperity”}.
What to do if the above describes you?
I offer you a few tips to help you identify your money paradigm.
— Sit down and WRITE OUT how you WOULD LIKE to live in your ideal scenario!
Let’s say you come across an old Aladdin’s lamp and the genie is ready to grant all your wishes.
Absolutely everything! Where will you ultimately end up?
The average person does NOT allow themselves to dream, because their dreams are ALWAYS tied to the resources they have at their disposal. {The opposite scenario, where people have their heads in the clouds, is beyond the scope of this article series. Alas!}
— Study the biographies of outstanding and prosperous people. “And” means they are known to a large number of people and are also prosperous.
What is their attitude towards money? How do they feel about investments in themselves and their education?
Such stories can be very instructive. It’s no coincidence that Steve Jobs’ biography became a global bestseller. Not because people are trying to make him an icon… what matters is his approach to business, as well as the mistakes you yourself can avoid by using his experience.
— Start communicating with people who are above you. Above you in a certain parameter, for example, income level.
Why is it important to have such people in your circle? Because they think DIFFERENTLY, interact with money DIFFERENTLY, and make decisions DIFFERENTLY.
Even if you take just one thing from interacting with them, it will be a big step forward for you. Compared to the position you are in right now.
To see what benefit I personally gained from such communication, watch the video Who Determines Your Opportunities?
— Collections of affirmations. A useful source for determining what you truly want.
The boom of affirmation images on social media hasn’t died down. Whether they work for you or not depends on your subsequent actions. If you just say them, even with feeling and faith, and then forget about them, then most likely there will be no result.
If you take an affirmation phrase on board as a further action and apply it in practice, BRAVO! {But that is already a step from point #3}
In this case, we are interested in the PHRASES THEMSELVES. If you see/read them and they evoke a deep resonance within you, then this phrase can safely be included in your new money paradigm.
Not long ago, I posted an Alpha-Theta meditation on the topic of money and finances on the site, which presents a whole list of money affirmations that you can test.
For a start, this is quite enough.
We still have to look at the 3rd stage of reprogramming, which we will do in the following articles.
I’ll tell you right away that the HIDDEN MECHANISMS blocking the flow of money become very apparent at this stage. Even when you act based on your new vision.
But more on that a little later.
In this series:
Part 1. The Evolution of Money Awareness
Part 2. Programmed Reality
Part 4. Matrix Reality