There are moments in life when you want to connect with certain people, or listen to a particular speaker or singer. And you go and talk or listen, without even realizing why.
If you track these moments, you will understand exactly what you are lacking at that moment. And that person matches you vibrationally.
Find out how you can use this to your advantage without becoming addicted to another person’s vibrations.
Vibrational Alignment at Certain Moments in Life
For example, I listen to Svetlana Dobrovolskaya. There are a couple of other people I feel like listening to at different points in my life. But when I feel that pull, I know why.
When I realize that too many unspoken things have piled up, I go to YouTube, put on recordings by Anastasia Dobrovolskaya, and scream along with her until I feel everything starting to release from the inside.
But it works this way with her, with Deva Premal, and with one or two other people I can sing with to open up like that.
I thought it was about the song, but no, sometimes you listen to the same song performed by someone else, and it doesn’t work, because that specific vibration is what matters here.
There was a moment when I was lacking warmth, and I came across a live stream by Tatiana Muzhitskaya. And I had the feeling that I was being warmed. And in that moment, I realized that this was exactly what I had been missing. But as soon as it dawned on me, I gave that warmth to myself. Now I know that there are people who come not for information, but for what the person is transmitting.
I know many people come to our live streams when I’m in that energetic state, to recharge, to catch that vibe of activity and movement.
I go to Svetlana Dobrovolskaya for the maternal energy of care. I have a very long history with her, many years. I remember I came to her home, she sat me down at the table, with a beautiful little plate and napkins: “Here, I bought you some sausage.”
I sat there and remembered what it was like in Oryol many years ago, when you sat down and were surrounded on all sides by the vibration of care, as if a mother had enveloped you with everything and anything.
When you catch yourself doing this, it doesn’t mean you need to latch onto that person and use it all the time. It means to identify what you are lacking and give it to yourself.
See also: A Person’s Vibrational Signature. How You Create Your Reality
Which Vibration Attracts You to People
You have your own circle of people you interact with regularly. Ask yourself: What vibration attracts me to them?
In some cases it will be calmness, in others warmth, in others it will be maternal energy, and in others, the energy of action.
Many people, for example, think I’m very active. But compared to my husband, who is the “think-and-do” type, I can never keep up with him in that regard. Compared to him, my activity level is very low.
I still need time to be, to walk around, to digest, to mentally prepare, whereas he’s instantaneous.
So pay attention to which vibration you are connecting with people on and at which moments. This way you can find your own medicine. If you are lacking something, you can go listen to someone or have a conversation.
Sometimes such wisdom flows from a person, and you realize that this is exactly what you are missing, and other times it’s simply wonderful to be silent and sit together. In general, I love friends with whom I can be silent; for me, this is the highest value.
You may notice that a certain vibration prevails over others. Pay attention to this. Perhaps this is what you are missing in life. In this way, you will get what you need to work on, what to replenish from within instead of searching for it outside.
See also: From codependency to interconnectedness with each other. The reason for the need for like-minded people
Which vibration most often attracts you in people?
The article is based on a broadcast from the #ask_km section “Ask KM 12”.