The state you are in right now, while doing household chores, when you step outside, and most importantly, how you react to what is happening around you, is what defines everything.
Everything else doesn’t matter.
This state can be called the “everything is good” state. When you fall out of it, you get a feeling of pressure.
Read more about why it’s important to stay in this state in the article.
Abiding in the “everything is good” state
You step out, close the front door, run into some delivery person in the elevator or a guy in a bad mood who doesn’t let you pass, mutters something at you — how will you react? Right at that moment, when a situation occurs, your state and reaction are what truly matter.
Your credentials, your statuses up to that moment, how many years you’ve been practicing, how much money you have in the bank, what positions and statuses your husbands or relatives hold — all of this gradually gets leveled until it fades away completely.
The only thing that matters is that single, specific moment: how exactly you reacted to something in that second. Did you react from love, or from a habitual script of discontent, irritation, resentment, aggression, or indignation? This is what defines everything.
In any given moment, you are either abiding in the state of “everything is good”: it’s good with me, it’s good around me, it’s good with the people surrounding me — or it’s a mess, getting messier, until you can switch back into that “everything is good” state.
See also: The Source of Forming the Space of the New Earth, or Why You Cannot Be in Turmoil
The feeling of pressure
You don’t need to understand what your vibration level is or what level of consciousness you’re at. Everything we’ve studied for years doesn’t matter.
Because either right now you feel that everything is good, amazing, or any other state will create a feeling of pressure on you.
The more pressure you experience, the more confused you become and the more you go in the wrong direction.
Not because you are bad or haven’t done something you should have, but because you are clinging too tightly to something that has died, that stinks, that is decaying, and you are holding onto it.
It’s just that before, there was a big buffer in terms of time. That’s no longer the case. If people don’t understand this the easy way, it means that until you pay attention, you’ll feel like something is pressing on you, forcing you, compelling you.
If you are in a state of lightness, floating, bliss — amazing. Until the next time, when another big wave of energy comes that will push and pressure you.
This pressure will increase for those who are not doing well. And this is an internal state, your reaction.
What comes to the forefront here is how well you have learned to abide in acceptance and gratitude, knowing that everything is going wonderfully and is for your highest good. Now is the time to show your mastery.
Are you able, in a single moment, when faced with some unpleasantness, when everything goes to hell, when you’ve been let down or upset and there really is a reason for it, to hold onto that “everything is good” state?
Or do you still switch back to the 3D model, when things start to really shake you up? Simply because it’s incompatible with the current vibrational background.
Most people don’t understand the difference between the state they are experiencing, the thought spinning in their head, or better yet, the action, the situation itself, and its interpretation.
This perception has nothing to do with the action itself, the situation itself, or any specific actions of people. It has nothing to do with how you feel, because specifically today, I’m feeling great.
We need to put a period right there.
But usually, the mind doesn’t stop there. If everything is awesome, maybe people are even ready to be happy that it’s all good, but still, some nasty thing crawls out from inside saying, “What if it’s not forever?” Or, on the contrary, it clings, holds on: “Let this be forever!”
What happens when you cling to something
It’s a common phenomenon when a husband drinks, cheats, kids are messy, something good happens, and you try to latch onto it with the hope that it will be like this forever now.
And when the person returns to their normal, natural behavior after some bright flash, your whole world collapses because you clung, held on, and expected it to be like this from now on.
You can only make things “forever” for yourself. But when another person is involved, they are the one who determines and decides whether it will be like this forever or not. And with your expectations, you are supporting a wrongly set direction, which is sometimes directly opposite to where you are going.
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The importance of your reaction
What matters is how you reacted to what happened, because in fact, every time you interact with someone, even just looking out the window and observing whether what’s outside is beautiful or not, rain or sunshine — it’s all about you.
And this is not easy to admit.
In the “Dance with the Shadow” course, this is always a very unpleasant discovery when people write stories, situations, analyze them, run them through the simulators, and see at the last step where you ended up. The first reaction is: “No! How is my husband not involved? How are the kids not involved? How is the sister-in-law not involved? How is this about me? Am I like that?”
You know how much protest arises at first?!
But if we find some nasty thing, it’s still possible to admit it, because we all love finding nasty things about ourselves: didn’t work enough, didn’t finish something.
But when we move on to treasures, talents, opportunities, where everything you admire in other people is also you, it’s just a shock: “Wait, are you saying that great master whose work I admire, that is inside me? No, that’s not about me. Well, I know I don’t draw, write, sing, or dance like that.”
Because everyone is ready to look for nasty things, but seeing the super, the awesome that is in you, and without which you cannot move forward following your heart, is very difficult.
What conclusions we drew, how we interpreted, how we reacted, how we perceived — everything depends on that.
If our reaction comes from a trauma, from some limitations imposed by teachers, school, society, and it doesn’t allow you to be in this “everything is good,” everything is good with me right now, everything around me is good right now, then these things need to be dug out and removed.
But not because you didn’t work enough, but because they prevent you from remaining in this creative state, where you truly feel impulses, the movement of fibers in your soul.
Incompatibility of patterns with the state of flow
Be like children, because only in a state of childlike spontaneity, sincerity, and clarity can you maintain this “all is well” state.
Children don’t have any predetermined patterns, templates, inventions, or perceptions for all occasions, which essentially made our lives much easier for many years, but which, unfortunately, are incompatible with the state of flow.
That’s why you will feel a growing pressure, a sense of being pushed.
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Resistance as a sign that you are not in the flow
If we take the analogy of a mountain river, when you go with the current, you are pushed from behind; when you try to stop, to anchor yourself, you feel it pulling you away. And if you need to turn around and go directly in the opposite direction, against the current, you feel increasing resistance.
Therefore, the main key to understanding whether you are in the flow or not is how high your resistance is. This is probably the only signal for all occasions, in any realities, in any situations, no matter what you are facing.
You cannot feel this “all is well” when you are resisting. Resistance means you are going against the current.
There’s no need to even guess what the current is, where it is — these are questions of the mind. If you are in the flow, you don’t feel resistance.
As soon as internal resistance arises, or a feeling of external pressure, it means you have pushed against something somewhere, you are slowing down somewhere, you are not moving in a state of flow somewhere.
The more you try to stand still, to go against the flow, the stronger the feeling of pressure will be.
Therefore, it doesn’t matter how deep you are in the subject, how much information you possess, how much inner work you have done, or if you only fell into this topic yesterday; the only thing that matters is whether you feel today that everything is well with you and around you.
If a wave of resistance starts to rise inside you, look at what you are clinging to.
Are you able to remain in the “all is well” state, and what happens when you fall out of it?
The article is based on broadcast #154 The Eclipse Corridor