In the new space we are heading into, there is no room for roles, destructive programs, or outdated emotional reactions.
The illumination of old baggage continues to happen, but now in a harsher format. If before you could still coexist with your inner demons, now they are mercilessly shaken out and shown to you.
Why this is happening and how to break free from old patterns, we will share in this article.
The Separation of Two Realities
At the turn of the transition from 2017 to 2018, a separation of timelines, of two realities occurred: the reality of people who realize they themselves manage their lives, and the reality of victims and complainers.
Some hoped they would already cross into the 5D world, while others would remain in 3D. This did not happen, because the separation was internal.
Now the moment has arrived when it is impossible to have one foot in one reality and the other foot in another reality.
You are either here or there. This means that those who lived in a victim consciousness still have a chance to rise up and get out. But the further we sail on the energies of this century, the fewer opportunities people have left.
And if those people made the choice to continue playing the victim role, they remained in that reality.
Those who made the choice to take responsibility for what happens in their lives began a process of transformation, which involves knocking out everything that does not align with the new reality we are moving into.
Download the booklet “How to Break Free from the Victim State.” The recommendations we give in this booklet will help you realize in which area of life you are still playing the victim role and help you stop doing it.
What You Are Being Forced to Let Go Of
In addition to the “ghosts from the past” appearing before us, which we wrote about earlier, a few more points have been added to this.
In this new space we are heading into, there is no room for many things. Here is what you are being forced to let go of:
- Roles
Many people are being strongly forced to give up roles. Specifically, those roles that contribute to the destruction of inner harmony and your state of being.
Among them are the roles of the good wife, mother, grandmother, father, employee, friend. The components that make you do things at the expense of your soul’s aspirations are being removed.
- Destructive Programs
Being obligated, needed, right, the desire to control everything…
Programs through which a person tries to fulfill their needs for love and external attention.
Now is the time to accept yourself fully, acknowledging your roles and programs. It is time to grow up and give yourself everything you have been waiting for from other people. Only this way can you free yourself from the influence of these programs.
- Outdated Emotional Reactions
If your level of irritability has increased, this indicates that you need to free yourself from such reactions.
Learn to react in a new way.
In the Dance with the Shadow 3.0 course, we examined the causes of such reactions in the tiniest detail, and each person created a new behavior model for themselves that leads to happiness and harmony, not destruction.
What Happens If You Refuse to See Old Reactions and Destructive Programs
If you resist the new and continue to be under the power of destructive programs, continue to play out roles, events unfold in your life that force you to look at these roles and beliefs, so that you make a choice to let go of them.
Sometimes these scenarios are so harsh, like illnesses, that you cannot pass them by or ignore them. It feels as if you are being stopped — there is no way forward.
It’s like a checkpoint, like a metal detector at the airport, through which you simply won’t be allowed with prohibited items.
These roles and programs are those prohibited items with which you will not pass further into the new reality.
If before you could live with this, even if it caused discomfort and periodically bothered you, now, when you don’t let go of them, your existence becomes simply unbearable.
If you notice such manifestations in yourself, make a decision to let go of roles, old reactions, and beliefs that lead you nowhere.
Recently, I discovered a program in myself of “having to be obligated.” I am a responsible person. If I set a goal to do something or promised something to someone, took on obligations at work, then I must fulfill it.
At some stage, this program kicks in, and inside me, the “brake” button gets blocked, and awareness turns off.
Sometimes I don’t notice when my resource is depleted, I don’t feel when I need to stop and give myself rest.
This time, the higher powers chose illness to stop me. But I continued to work while sick because I “had to do it.”
Then my child got sick, and I was forced to switch my attention to them, but in my free time from caring for them, instead of resting, recovering, and gaining strength, I worked and tried to fulfill the promise I had made to myself.
Then I got sick for a second time, and my child had a neck spasm. Only after this was I able to see that I was acting under the influence of the program.
If you notice that troubles are happening in your life that are increasing exponentially, stop and think about what role you are playing day in and day out, what your thoughts are occupied with.
Study the rule of the three signals of the universe. This will help you understand what signal it is sending you.
Besides needing to see the truth in the scenarios that life throws at you, it is also important to learn how to live in the new space.
While you don’t yet know all the possibilities and advantages of being in the new reality, you can lift yourself up to its vibrations.
What will help you learn to live in the new space
1. Abide in a state of being
For some, this state will be completely unfamiliar, because they are used to evaluating themselves based on achievements.
But this is a necessary condition if you want to attune to the new reality.
When a person has lived all their life under the influence of conditioning, wearing masks, trying to earn attention and love, it is hard to understand what it means to simply be.
What it means to love yourself just because, regardless of what kind of person you are or what you have achieved.
The meditation “Cave of Doing, Garden of Being” will help you release the paradigm of evaluating yourself through actions and switch into a state of being.
2. Maintain a state of non-judgment and neutrality
To vibrationally reside in the new reality, practice non-judgment. Remain neutral and transparent.
This isn’t even about condemnation, but about letting go of evaluative judgments: good-bad.
If you encounter something that doesn’t resonate with you, you simply turn in another direction and focus on the things that are important to you.
See also Meditation «The Point of Synthesis. Feeling the Magic«
3. Feel complete acceptance
To free yourself from outdated roles and emotional reactions, you don’t necessarily need to do a big transformational work. Complete acceptance is enough.
If you can accept as a given the presence of the roles and programs you have discovered in yourself, you will be able to let them go.
These three simple, at first glance, tips will help you attune to the new energies, the influence of which we will fully feel in the new year.
They are not so easy to follow. But the choice is always yours — to stay in 3D reality with the old baggage and suffer, or to let it go in favor of a new, better life.