In the first part of the article, we told you how to connect to the source of power that lies within each of you. In this part, you will learn how to wisely manage your power and how to nourish it.
Who is given power
«Power is given to those who can use it wisely.»
from a forecast by Lauren Gorgo
Most listeners of the KM project are already “leveled up.” You have power within you. You need to learn to use it wisely.
Power is given to those who can use it wisely. All of you have this power.
Whether you believe in your light or not, whether you have fully expressed your love or not, you have that spark – compared to those who are completely in 3-D and their limitations.
In any case, your light shines brighter than that of such people.
When you interact with others, including 3-D people, choose to share this light with them. But do not force others to “beam” – manage your power wisely.
How to nourish your power
Plant seeds of joy, happiness, and pleasure. Plant seeds of moments where you feel bliss, where you are grateful, where you enjoy the moments of your life.
These seeds do not necessarily have to be connected to any real events. More precisely, they are not connected to them at all.
Neither situations with money, nor relationships, nor what happens at work can prevent you from making a new choice.
Every time you see that you acted/reacted not as you wished (your automatic response kicked in), do not berate yourself. Simply note it for yourself, voice it – “next time I will act differently.”
Thus you help your mind build new synaptic pathways. In this way, you show your mind an alternative, and thus lead it beyond its own limitations. Thereby you expand your consciousness.
At the same time, you accept other people as they are. You are exclusively occupied with yourself.
You look back, see all your achievements and all your failures, and you give thanks for all your experience. It is this experience that has brought you to the point of now.
«If you are alive right now, if you are in bodies right now, that is a reason to throw a grand party because the hardest part is already done» (Jason Estes).
Celebrate every small shift of yours, every little step. Give thanks and celebrate.
Starting from 2018, you can renounce any contract (the law of free will and choice) if you believe it no longer serves you. This also applies to what is commonly called karmic relationships.
From now on, it is a matter of your choice. You have the right to exit those commitments you once took upon yourself – if you do not feel joyful and happy in them.
Contracts and karmic obligations are what only a small part of people get “stuck” on. The majority get “stuck” on simple everyday life.
The problem is that most people lack a sense of the value of each experience – both positive and negative.
When you catch the feeling of the value of a moment/any situation, you can easily sense your own inner worth.
See also Three stages of gaining personal power at the collective level
Honesty with yourself as the key to your strength
It is important to understand the motives that drive you.
You may be aware that you are doing something, and from your perspective, it leads to negative consequences.
But it is important to understand the mechanics, the underlying motives of your actions and choices.
For example, you are into rescuing others. It is important to realize that you start saving everyone when other people’s lives are more interesting to you than your own.
For you, this becomes a way to assert yourself and find at least some meaning in life.
You have given up on yourself, your life is dull and boring, you think you do not even deserve to be here. At the same time, by helping and saving others, you get a feeling of satisfaction and give meaning to your existence.
Thus, you are lying to yourself.
But when you recognize your own lie, you see that you yourself can make your life full, interesting, and rich. Moreover, you begin to understand that this fullness does not depend on material goods, nor on having a partner in life, etc.
Then everything in your life turns upside down – because you lay completely different principles at the foundation of your life.
See also Honesty as an indicator of spiritual growth
Strength as acceptance of one’s weakness
There are no absolutely pure and fluffy people. You yourself are not exclusively pure and fluffy.
Think for yourself: if you are born into a space where you grow only through suffering, can there be pure and fluffy people among you?
Even if in this life you consider yourself a saint, there are simultaneously a huge number of lives where you are not a saint, you are all kinds of different.
Your task is to learn to accept yourself.
When you do not accept some of your negative manifestations, your failures, periodically scold yourself, berate yourself, feel guilt or shame, the world immediately shows this to you.
Every person has two sides – the “light” and the conditional “protective”.
The protective side kicks in when you are also experiencing a lack of energy. When you are out of resources, you fall into defense.
In the protective side, completely different principles operate. I, for example, am a dictator. My word is set in stone. As I said, so it is – try to go against it, and I will crush you.
I remember how it used to be. There were moments of high tension when something urgently needed to be changed or done, and this part of me immediately turned on.
When you are in a harmonious state, you have the opportunity to manifest your light sides, your best spiritual qualities. The same applies to your loved ones.
For this reason, if a loved one is in a state of stress, aggression, etc., you need to understand that they feel terrible at that moment, they have no resources.
You are mistaken if you think that those who are negative like what they are doing, or that they do not later regret their outbursts.
Instead of once again taking a loved one’s attacks personally, accept the situation for what it is.
Of course, it is not easy when a person constantly swings from positive to negative. But it is possible to cope with this situation.
It depends on where you yourself are most often – on the light side or the protective side. The same is true for the person you are in a relationship with.
See also Profiles of Destiny. From Survival to Life Mission
Through gratitude/joy to strength
If you learn to be grateful for every breath, for every moment of life and its gifts, you are thereby rewriting old programs.
From a global perspective, to master the descending cosmic energy, you need to take your power. This is not about 3-D power (controlling and suppressing), but power from the source itself.
When you reorient and reconnect, everything aligns completely differently — through bliss and enjoyment.
An important note to keep in mind: this should not be at the expense of other people.
Every moment you create your next experience. You create your next experience — through your perception.
Usually, you pour your considerable power into reactions of rejection.
Admittedly, achieving the same power (degree of intensity) in states of joy, happiness, and laughter is difficult.
Powerfully charged positive reactions are a fairly rare phenomenon.
Yet you regularly produce a volume of colossal, negatively charged energy and then wonder why you encounter difficulties everywhere in life.
You create them yourself.
How do you nourish your power, what helps you be in your power and manage it wisely?
The article is based on a broadcast from the #conversation_on_the_couch section “The Wisdom of Power”